Ok, since our m/c I've lost a lot of my sex drive. Is this normal and what can I take to bring it back? Poor DH is so patient but I know he's frustrated too. I'm taking "horny goat weed" supplement....but it's honestly doing nothing except burning a whole in our wallets. Part of me thinks I'm just giving up on it all....Although I don't feel as thought i'm giving up...but I can't find another reason for this total lack of drive.