Hi everyone. I'm back on the boards after I left in early February having had an absolutely devastating mmc, baby passed at 9 weeks I found out at 11 (still had symptoms, found out only through scan).
I have been to the bottom since then and really had days where I just wanted to die. However I have worked hard to stay afloat and found out three weeks ago I'm pregnant again, 7+4 by dates, 7+1 by an ultrasound I had (saw heartbeat). Of course I feel so grateful to be pregnant but this pregnancy has been pure fear and over precaution... until earlier when I stupidly gave into my stupid hormones and I had an orgasm. That was around six hours ago and I have had contraction-type feelings ever since then. They haven't really let up. Now I'm in floods of tears, inconsolable by my husband and convinced I'm facing going through it all again.
They're not cramps as such, they don't feel like period pains - they feel more like braxton hicks (I know from my first, successful pregnancy). My uterus just feels very very tight and pulled, almost as if I could feel it hard if I pressed with my hand (I can't feel anything with my hand, assume it's too early).
I just don't know what to do and I really need some honest answers - please be truthful. Could the orgasm have put this pregnancy at risk? I can't even get an emergency scan until Tuesday at the earliest as my son has an important medical appointment tomorrow. I'm a mess here.
I have been to the bottom since then and really had days where I just wanted to die. However I have worked hard to stay afloat and found out three weeks ago I'm pregnant again, 7+4 by dates, 7+1 by an ultrasound I had (saw heartbeat). Of course I feel so grateful to be pregnant but this pregnancy has been pure fear and over precaution... until earlier when I stupidly gave into my stupid hormones and I had an orgasm. That was around six hours ago and I have had contraction-type feelings ever since then. They haven't really let up. Now I'm in floods of tears, inconsolable by my husband and convinced I'm facing going through it all again.
They're not cramps as such, they don't feel like period pains - they feel more like braxton hicks (I know from my first, successful pregnancy). My uterus just feels very very tight and pulled, almost as if I could feel it hard if I pressed with my hand (I can't feel anything with my hand, assume it's too early).
I just don't know what to do and I really need some honest answers - please be truthful. Could the orgasm have put this pregnancy at risk? I can't even get an emergency scan until Tuesday at the earliest as my son has an important medical appointment tomorrow. I'm a mess here.
