Confused and upset - irregular cycles!

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  1. garkat23

    garkat23 Well-Known Member

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    Hi all
    I was just wondering if anyone had any advice or was or has been in a similar situation and has got their BFP.

    I came off the pill in Jan and have had erratic cycles since.

    1st 32 days
    2nd 28 days
    3rd 33 days
    Now on CD2 of 4th cycle

    Used OPK's in 3rd cycle but didn't get a positive until cd20 when I got 3 days positive in a row! Now that was confusing, but also if I came on yesterday and it's 14 days after Ov then didn't I ovulate on cd 19??
    I am so confused and getting more and more stressed as have no idea what is going on and what I should be doing differently this month!
    I'm sorry if I sound stupid, am just very confused, have always had regular cycles in the past and now I want to conceive they are all over the place!!
    Any advice would be greatly appreciated
    :hug:

    x x x x
     
  2. thesmiths88

    thesmiths88 Well-Known Member

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    Hi Garkat, I'm in the same situation you are - came off the pill in Dec and my cycles are not regular either - 37, 37, 32 and 27 (tho I'm hoping its implantation bleeding and not AF!). Just wanted to say chin up really xxx
     
  3. Kirstin

    Kirstin Well-Known Member

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    Ifyou were on the pill a long time then it will take a while for your body to readjust, just relax, dont get upset about it when I came off the pill one cycle went up to 47 days :shock:
     
  4. thesmiths88

    thesmiths88 Well-Known Member

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    47 days???!! That must have made it a nightmare to try and work out the best dates!!
     
  5. goingforit

    goingforit Well-Known Member

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    Garkat sorry to hear hun. I think the thing to remember is that even if we do everything right unfortunately there is only a 25% chance of conceiving and therefore maybe you do not need to change anything.

    I know periods all over the place can be a nightmare but as long as you are checking ovulation what you need to ask yourself is can you really be doing anymore?? It doesn't matter how long you were on the pill for ...everybody's body responds differently...i was on BCP for 9 years and my periods have been regular since stopping.

    Fx for next month xx
     

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