Kanichen34
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I have a beautiful little girl who is 2.5, hubby and I were just thinking of trying for a second baby. But we stayed with some friends this week who have a 10 month old, and she's lovely - but it didn't make me feel broody. Same with my friends 9 week old. I hated being pregnant, loved giving birth but that's only 20 minutes really! We've been talking and come to the conclusion that we both definitely want another child, but aren't fussed about having a baby. Something we had discussed briefly before was to have a second child, then consider adopting a third when our youngest was in school. However, chatting this weekend has made us wonder if we should just look into adopting a second child? We have no known fertility issues and conceived our daughter second try so adoption isn't a last option or anything like that, we just think it would be wonderful to give a child that's had a bad start a wonderful life.
Is this a crazy thought? I know an adopted child is certainly not going to be easier than a newborn - it will be a completely different set of challenges.
We are very early days in thinking about this so any thoughts would be appreciated.
Is this a crazy thought? I know an adopted child is certainly not going to be easier than a newborn - it will be a completely different set of challenges.
We are very early days in thinking about this so any thoughts would be appreciated.