Shandelion
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My newborn (one week old) won't tolerate being in the crib at all, and for the most part sobs his broken heart out if he's not in contact with me at all times. I cosleep comfortably, although it terrifies my husband. My boy sleeps soundly cuddled up against my chest. But since he's so physically needy of me, I worry I'm fostering an unhealthy dependence that we'll pay for later on. I know you "can't spoil a newborn", but in a short time he won't be newborn anymore and I don't want to hurt him trying to detach him a little in a few months. What if at four or six months old he still screams if out of contact with me, or can't sleep unless burrowed against me? I want him to be just as happy solo as he is when burrowed against me. But...I can't stand sticking him somewhere and letting him sob until he "gets used to it".
Thoughts? How do I best foster a happy, independent, secure, loving baby from here?
Thoughts? How do I best foster a happy, independent, secure, loving baby from here?