could something be wrong with me ?

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by Stacey_89, Dec 25, 2009.

  1. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    So its been 7months now of trying since our loss.
    And i was speaking to a friend about it and she said maybe the miscarriage has ruined your body.....

    And now im completly worried :( what if shes right ?

    is that possible? i know it can take awhile to concieve after a MC.
    but im totaly worried now.... might have to make a docs appoitment for a chat.


    Any advise please ladies
    hope we are all having a good christmas x
     
  2. moomin_troll

    moomin_troll mummy to zane and corey

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    what a stupid thing for her to say!

    alot of people have mc and then go on to have healthy pregnancies and babies.

    7 months isnt along time to ttc even tho i no it will feel ages so dont worry i doubt anything is wrong with u.

    and if having a mc cud ruin ur body then alot of women including my mum wudnt of been able to have their babies x
     
  3. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    Thanks hun.
    Yeah i know, but once people tell me things it does not leave my mind
    then i end up thinking it,then by the end of the day im worrying and drive myself mad.
     
  4. shocker

    shocker Well-Known Member

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    Oh hun!! How could she say something like that!! Thats so not true! I know it must seem like forever but you will have your little baby in your arms i know it :hugs: :hugs: hope your doin ok today xx
     
  5. coccyx

    coccyx Well-Known Member

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    Rubbish. I have had 9 miscs BUT also have 4 healthy children, so never affected my fertility!Sure 2010 will be your year
     
  6. debgreasby

    debgreasby Happy Mummy!

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    Oh hunni, there's nothing wrong with you. You will have a precious baby in your arms before you know it and what she said will be a distant memory xxx
     
  7. KA92

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    hug nope nothing wrong with you hun.she doesn't sound much of a friend if she says things like that to you!x
     
  8. Stacey_89

    Stacey_89 Team PINK

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    Thanks everyone i feel so much better now :)
    I really hope 2010 is my year !!!

    xx
     
  9. moomin_troll

    moomin_troll mummy to zane and corey

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    id give that "friend" a piece of my mind and tell her she 1 needss to learn how to talk to ppl n 2 needs to shut up about things she knows nothing about.

    good luck xx
     
  10. fluffyblue

    fluffyblue Loving being mommy

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    She sounds daft !!

    A MC can cock up your cycles but ive never heard it "ruin" your body unless you have some previous underlying issues which are causing losses. But that would have been in your body prior to your loss.

    Sounds like she one of them know-alls !

    I have lots of them around me and I tell em to stick it !
     

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