Could Use Some Support. Feeling Low, Need to know 11DPO

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  1. Lizzyxxx

    Lizzyxxx No.3 On the way!

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    Hello, well i am 11dpo today. Im also CD34! AF should be scheduled for tomorrow. (35days)

    Im very confused about my body at the moment and its making me sad.

    I ovulated on CD23 or 24 (had ov pains on CD24)

    I took a Early Response HPT yesterday and i thought it looked very faint (i posted it on Gallery) I guess it was :bfn: I took a Superdrug brand this morning with FMU and that looks :bfn: too.

    I have felt very unusual this weekend, nausious, headaches and i went to bed at 11:50pm and slept in until 10:45am this morning, getting up once at 5:30am to take the test.
    My headache feels horrid and sickness feeling is nasty, but i haven't lost my appetite so much.
    Could i be pregnant? Want to know if anyone else has got :bfn: using such a sensitive test and then got :bfp: later on?:shrug:
     
  2. notquitesure

    notquitesure Well-Known Member

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    The FRER would be more sensitive than Superdug (I think) so you could well get a faint positive on a FRER then a BFN on a superdrug after. I would test again tomoro with another FRER. FX for you hun xxxxxxx
     
  3. Lizzyxxx

    Lizzyxxx No.3 On the way!

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    Sorry what is FRER? I assuming its a better brand?
    Its just the Superdrug one says accurate 4 days before AF is due!
     
  4. honeybee91

    honeybee91 Well-Known Member

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    It is possible has you may have inplanted later on in your cycle or the test is not picking up enough HCG, you also may have O later than you think as for some women O pains are before they actually O, I get pains a few days before O which I realised when I started using OPK tests and charting.

    Good luck
     
  5. Lizzyxxx

    Lizzyxxx No.3 On the way!

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    Thanks well in that case i am out this month!
    Last time i :sex: was a day before i 'thought' i ovulated! OH has been unwell since :(
     
  6. laura6914

    laura6914 Proud mummy #2 on the way

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    Sperm can live for up to 7 days hun, 5 days on average so your still in with a chance. The sperm from the day before OV would be there to meet the egg. Your not out just yet hun. Chin up. I know how low you feel. We all have it some times. I had one of those days yesterday when i got my +OPK and the OH didnt get back till this afternoon. Im still holding onto hope.

    xxx :hugs:
     
  7. honeybee91

    honeybee91 Well-Known Member

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    :thumbup:
    Sperm can live upto 5 days.
    O pains are at different times for different women some get them before, others during or after.

    I would say your chances are smaller the day before AF is due however you are not out till she shows,it is not unheard off to get a late BFP.
     
  8. Lizzyxxx

    Lizzyxxx No.3 On the way!

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    Thanks, could you look at my picture on the gallery and let me know what you think?
     
  9. notquitesure

    notquitesure Well-Known Member

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    Sorry... FRER = First Response Early Response.

    FX for you hun xxxxxxxxx
     
  10. Lizzyxxx

    Lizzyxxx No.3 On the way!

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    Okay thanks, i still dont know what to think. I really am tempted to do another one today!
     
  11. mrshuse8pound

    mrshuse8pound Well-Known Member

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    I think you should test again tomorrow. HCG doubles every 24-48 hours so you should get your positive by then. Unfortunately I didn't look at your test because I can never see the lines (kind of like with ultrasunds I suck at reading those too).

    And I'm 12dpo and after having cramping for a whole week (since 4dpo), yucky mouth, fatigue and horrible gas all my symptoms are fading away so I know I'm out for the month. It's so saddening to me also because I wanted a BFP for Xmas this year. I told my DH to not buy me anything because that's all I wanted and I wanted him to save that money for me to buy baby things but...ain't gonna happen.

    At least I can enjoy a glass of wine tonight and I plan on doing so! Good luck!
     
  12. Deeni

    Deeni Well-Known Member

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    I just want to say Good Luck!! You are not out until the :witch: shows up!!
     
  13. EllaMom2B

    EllaMom2B believes in miracles

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    If you are out (and you don't know until she shows), then have DH buy you lots of lovely pressies!!!!!
     
  14. mrshuse8pound

    mrshuse8pound Well-Known Member

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    :hug:

    Thanks for the encouragement I am tryng to stay as positive as I can because I hate negative energy! And now that you mention it I did see these lovely new boots.....:winkwink:
     
  15. Lizzyxxx

    Lizzyxxx No.3 On the way!

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    Yes all i wanted for xmas was a :bfp:
    Im 12DPO today and CD 35 and still no :af: so who knows!
     
  16. mrshuse8pound

    mrshuse8pound Well-Known Member

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    I hope she stays gone for good!!!! She's not wanted around these parts! :dust:
     
  17. I bought 4 FRER's today, BOGOF in Boots, I am 10dpo and nothing showed on the test and I made a good go of it this month so should have a good chance, but I too am feeling out. I do hope we both get our BFP's, I am gonna have a look at yours in the gallery, xxxx
     

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