bohemiangel
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Hi ladies!!!
Brand new here and would love some input on my somewhat unique WTT situation
I met the love of my life just over a year ago at a workshop in California. He was born and raised and currently lives in England. We knew pretty much right away that we were in love, and things have gotten progressively more serious throughout the year. He has flown out to the US to visit me every 2-3 months since we've gotten together, and my first trip to London is coming up next month We are both a little older, he more so than I (I'm 33 and he's 46), and are really anxious to start TTC for our first SOON- given our ages we know it could take a while! However, with arranging visas and packing up my life in the US and all, it's going to be another 6-7 months before I can actually join him in London.
We have a few trips lined up over the next 5 months or so, and one of them falls right in that "magic window!" We are seriously considering starting to try then, even though if (by magic) that first go were successful I would run the risk of being alone for the first few months of pregnancy. Also that would mean packing up and moving everything I own and a very long flight at about 4 months pregnant. (I know he would come out to help me move, so I wouldn't have to worry about the physical aspect of that.) It's more of the emotional stress of such a big move that concerns me, and I worry that it could cause a miscarriage.
Thanks for reading, and I would love to hear the experiences of anyone else who has had to move while pregnant (and hopefully it turned out ok?), or if anyone else has some thoughts to share in general! THANKS!!!
Brand new here and would love some input on my somewhat unique WTT situation
I met the love of my life just over a year ago at a workshop in California. He was born and raised and currently lives in England. We knew pretty much right away that we were in love, and things have gotten progressively more serious throughout the year. He has flown out to the US to visit me every 2-3 months since we've gotten together, and my first trip to London is coming up next month We are both a little older, he more so than I (I'm 33 and he's 46), and are really anxious to start TTC for our first SOON- given our ages we know it could take a while! However, with arranging visas and packing up my life in the US and all, it's going to be another 6-7 months before I can actually join him in London.
We have a few trips lined up over the next 5 months or so, and one of them falls right in that "magic window!" We are seriously considering starting to try then, even though if (by magic) that first go were successful I would run the risk of being alone for the first few months of pregnancy. Also that would mean packing up and moving everything I own and a very long flight at about 4 months pregnant. (I know he would come out to help me move, so I wouldn't have to worry about the physical aspect of that.) It's more of the emotional stress of such a big move that concerns me, and I worry that it could cause a miscarriage.
Thanks for reading, and I would love to hear the experiences of anyone else who has had to move while pregnant (and hopefully it turned out ok?), or if anyone else has some thoughts to share in general! THANKS!!!