Ive always given LO cutlery ever since we started to wean at 6 months, she can take both pre-loaded spoons and forks but at the moment cant load them herself. She tries with the fork and hits in the right place, she just doesn't get that she needs to put more pressure on it and dig it in iykwim. Usually I say oh shell get it in her own time and all that but she is now 16 months and I'm starting to worry that she should be doing it all ready. What age did your LO's start using it for themselves and is there anything I can do to help her getting it right? What age should she be doing it by? Thanks.