Hey ladies! Me again. So I've been keeping a lid on having a kid pretty closed because a few law enforcement friends really urged me not to advertise being a single mom or that I have a young child. However, I've been talking to this guy and it really felt like it was going somewhere. He asked me out, and I started having awful anxiety because I hadn't told him I have a kid. He never asked if I had kids, and I was planning to tell him if the date went well. But after a couple sleepless nights, I told him. Side note, I actually slept through the night so I know I made the right choice. He said that he appreciated the honesty, but he wasn't sure how he felt about dating someone with a kid and needed time to process. I thought that was very diplomatic, and I appreciated the honesty. We talked for a while about other things, but at the end of the call I reminded him I have a kid and I'm happy to answer any questions he has. He had none. Just said he needed to process it. Is it weird that he doesn't have any questions? I always have so many when a guy says he has kids. My friends are all saying that maybe I just really shocked him, and he's genuinely just taking a moment to catch up to what I said. I feel like it means either A- he's stopped seeing long term potential so why bother asking or B- he's just genuinely disinterested in my child. I know I can't really do anything but wait it out. But ugh. Thoughts?