You girls are the only ones that I can say this to but I've been having a difficult time since we found out 12 weeks ago that were having a boy. I know this is only our first, but I've had so many difficulties and sickness with this pregnancy, that I really don't know if I can do this again. That being said, I've always always wanted a girl...I'm not sure if its because my mother raised me as a single parent and its always been just "us girls" and I feel like I've always been so feminine that I won't be able to relate to a boy, or it may also be because my sister passed at age 23 two years ago and I feel that having a little girl that may look/act like her would help ease the loss?
I love this baby already but EVERY time I see on facebook that another friend/acquaintance is having a girl I feel so depressed. I feel so bad about that bc I should be happy for them, but I just can't seem to be. I have a close friend that has a 6 year old boy and accidentally fell pregnant and finds out tomorrow what she is having (she's hoping girl). Even though she already has a boy and this is her second and I should be hoping WITH her that she's having a girl, instead I find myself doing the opposite and hoping that she's having another boy...Im dreading tomorrow and I really feel like a terrible person
I love this baby already but EVERY time I see on facebook that another friend/acquaintance is having a girl I feel so depressed. I feel so bad about that bc I should be happy for them, but I just can't seem to be. I have a close friend that has a 6 year old boy and accidentally fell pregnant and finds out tomorrow what she is having (she's hoping girl). Even though she already has a boy and this is her second and I should be hoping WITH her that she's having a girl, instead I find myself doing the opposite and hoping that she's having another boy...Im dreading tomorrow and I really feel like a terrible person