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KJunkie
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Ok, so my mother is very stubborn and overbearing. She is selfish and thinks that what she says should go .. no matter what! But, when it comes to my life and my child then she has no right or say about it. I wish she would just realize this!
First off, I am in an interracial relationship; to the dismay of my mother. I can't even explain how stressful she can be about all of this. I love this man, but it doesn't matter because he is African American. Therefore, he is not good enough. Well, that is COMPLETELY not true.
My OH and I plan on getting married before this baby arrives so that I DO NOT have to listen to my mother about giving this baby his last name. I mean; that is not the ONLY reason we are getting married, lol. We love each other dearly and want to spend the rest of our lives together .. but this will definitely eleviate some of our problems with my mother.
But, I have also told my OH that if we have a boy I will let the baby be a Junior. Of course, I have my love/hate relationship with this. I would like my child to have its own name for the most part; but it is extremely important to my OH and he has an adorable, simple name that I love. Therefore I am happy with that decision. (It has REALLY grown on me.) But, my mother says that there is NO WAY this baby is going to be a Junior.
She thinks she can rule EVERYTHING. Which is extremely annoying. I am 19 years old, and my entire life she has had this really dumb control over me. I do not know why ... I guess because I have ALWAYS been scared of her.
But, I want to stand up to my mom. I just need to do it gently and in a way that she wont completely go psycho. Any advice? Anyone in a similar situation?!
First off, I am in an interracial relationship; to the dismay of my mother. I can't even explain how stressful she can be about all of this. I love this man, but it doesn't matter because he is African American. Therefore, he is not good enough. Well, that is COMPLETELY not true.
My OH and I plan on getting married before this baby arrives so that I DO NOT have to listen to my mother about giving this baby his last name. I mean; that is not the ONLY reason we are getting married, lol. We love each other dearly and want to spend the rest of our lives together .. but this will definitely eleviate some of our problems with my mother.
But, I have also told my OH that if we have a boy I will let the baby be a Junior. Of course, I have my love/hate relationship with this. I would like my child to have its own name for the most part; but it is extremely important to my OH and he has an adorable, simple name that I love. Therefore I am happy with that decision. (It has REALLY grown on me.) But, my mother says that there is NO WAY this baby is going to be a Junior.
She thinks she can rule EVERYTHING. Which is extremely annoying. I am 19 years old, and my entire life she has had this really dumb control over me. I do not know why ... I guess because I have ALWAYS been scared of her.
But, I want to stand up to my mom. I just need to do it gently and in a way that she wont completely go psycho. Any advice? Anyone in a similar situation?!