December 2011 Baby.. please join!!

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  1. mememe123

    mememe123 Cautiously Pregnant

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    I just got my BFP today and Due Date will be Dec 14th. I have had previous MC's and 2 healthy pregnancies.. F X'd for this little beany.

    Please join in with me... I would love to have some peeps to chat with in the same boat. :happydance:
     
  2. norah s

    norah s Well-Known Member

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    Me too! :happydance: I should be due 10th Dec so fx.
    I m feeling a bit anxious though as ive had 2 previous mmc's last one was dec '08. So this baby has been a long time in the making so praying its a sticky one x
     
  3. LiSa2010

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    congrats again sweety, H&H 9 months! :hugs:
     
  4. mememe123

    mememe123 Cautiously Pregnant

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    Yeah!!!
    ia m so glad to have someone in the same baot as me. i did not have a hard time to TTC .. my MO is late MC... Fingers crossed for us.
     
  5. mememe123

    mememe123 Cautiously Pregnant

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    Thanks... : )

    hope you are with me soon!!!
     
  6. mememe123

    mememe123 Cautiously Pregnant

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    anyone else???
     
  7. norah s

    norah s Well-Known Member

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    Looks like its just us for the moment!
    Went to the drs yesterday. I ve now got an early scan arranged for the 26th so counting the days down. Its going to be a long 2wks and 5 days...:wacko:
     
  8. Mommy2LittleB

    Mommy2LittleB Well-Known Member

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    Hi Ladies, I am new here but have been lurking for some time. I got my BFP yesterday morning!!! My EDD is Dec 13, 2011
    I had a D&C Jan 5 after being pregnant for 13.5 weeks. We were completely heartbroken and will never forget our little Angel!
    I'm sorry your losses and pray for a H&H 9 months for all of us this time around!!
     
  9. mememe123

    mememe123 Cautiously Pregnant

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    Norah- I have not called my doc yet... I will do this tomorrow. That is awesome you have a scan booked. the countdown wait is awful though. I am hoping I am reffered onto a specialist this time around. We will see though.. hard to get in here.

    Mommy2LittleB- Welcome.. please post as much as you want.. It is much easier to go through with lots of people and help from each other. I am almost the same as you.. mc Jan 31st 2011 at 14.5 weeks. : ( .. i am finding it hard to be excited about my BFP bc i am so scared.

    Well I need an opinion:
    When should I tell? Who shoudl I tell? It there any point in keeping to myself? I have such a late MC trend in past really everyone will know by then anyway. So why not spread some happiness in the meantime and hope like He!! this is the one...
    I have told my DH, mother, and a co-worker to keep sanity so far.
    What will you do??
     
  10. kryfar

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    Can I join?? I'm due Dec 12. 1st cycle after mmc at 10 wks. We had a chemical pg right before that. They did testing on the fetus for my mmc and there was nothing wrong, nothing wrong with me either. So, I'm a nervous wreck! I hope we all have H&H nine months!

    mememe123- I've told my support people. Best friends, DH (of course) and Mom. My thoughts are, they know we m/ced before and that we were trying again, so why not have them there for support if I need it?
     
  11. Eternal

    Eternal Three boys!

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    Can I join, Im super early, very silly I know, Im due on the 16th, I had a nearly 12 week MC in January and I really wanted another baby before it came to my 1 year annivsary of our loss, which was the 5th Jan (my birthday). Now we just need to keep hold of our little miricles!

    I know Im really foolsih to even be posting this early, but I have decided I am just going to enjoy this pregnancy and stop worrying "what if", wishing you all a healthy and happy 9 months
     
  12. PhoenixRising

    PhoenixRising No babies yet

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    Hello all :flower:
    I'd like to join too please. Got my bfp on Tuesday and will be due 13th Dec if this works out. I had an early m/c end of Jan so am feeling quite nervous now!
     
  13. ariesmandy

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    can i join? i just found out yesterday and im due i think december 13th.
     
  14. norah s

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    Congratulations on your BFP :flower:
    So sorry for your previous loss. Its awful the worry and anxiety it causes. I feel like i ve got this dark cloud hanging over me which will not go away until i ve had my scan. Will also be praying for a h & h 9 months for us all x x
     
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    Your not foolish! i like your pma :happydance:
     
  16. Eternal

    Eternal Three boys!

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    Thanks hun, im still terrified Ill lose this one too, but I am determined to enjoy what I have right now, or else i will wish my life away waiting for the "what if". does that make sense?

    At the moment im thinking about 4 weeks, in 4 weeks time ill get a scan so im just thinking baby steps, although i am mega excitied :happydance:
     
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    Hi ariesmany, phoenixrising and kryfar
    Its nice to see were gathering a few december babies!

    mememe- i ve not told to many people just in laws and a couple of close friends. I know it sounds silly but i dont want to jinx things yet at such an early stage. Also i still dont really believe it myself. When ive had my early scan all being well i ll maybe tell a few others.
    Just tell who you feel you want too as my dh said if god forbid the worst does happen probably will end up telling people (close family and friends) then anyway so they may as well know and share in the good news. If you know what i mean ...
     
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    norah s Well-Known Member

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    You make perfect sense. I need to try and be more positive like you. It sound awful but im just wishing the first tri away. I want that scan and i ve got a feeling the time is going to go very very slowly ... :wacko:
     
  19. Eternal

    Eternal Three boys!

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    Do you know when you will get a scan?

    When i lost the baby i called several EPUs to try and get an appointment, one a little way away said they would, after we found out my baby had died they said to come back when i was pregnant and they would scan me, they said most areas wont do early scans until you have lost 3 babies but they do after just one MC. so im going to wait until im 8 weeks and call them.

    Are you in the UK? if so and you havent already got a scan you could call around and see if any do early scans
     
  20. Mommy2LittleB

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    Hi Ladies!

    Wow it looks like we're becoming a good size group! YAY! :happydance:

    Eternal- you are not being foolish! I think it's better to think positive than to let ourselves get worried. Every pregnancy is different and let's all be hopeful so our baby can feel out positive energy! Plus, we are all here for each other so it makes it easier! btw, we both lost our little :angel: the same day :cry:

    mememe123- thanks for the welcome! As for who to tell, my DH and I decided we didn't want to take any of the excitement and happiness away from this. So we went ahead and told our family and very close friends who were there for us during our loss. They were all very happy for us. I think everyone reacts to things differently and it's up to you to do what you think is best for you and your DH.

    I'm in Southern California, and my DR orders an ultrasound at 6 weeks to confirm your due date. The next scan after that (the NT Scan) is at 11-13 wks but for myself he is going to request it as early as possible cuz of the situation with our previous pregnancy.

    Again, thank you ladies for the warm welcome! Let's think and be positive! This is going to be our sticky baby! :hugs:
     

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