Decided not to test -

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  1. louisaL

    louisaL Trying for number 1

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    until i am or if i am a week late at least!

    A) because i dont 'feel' pregnant so expecting a bfn and dont want to see it
    B) i stil have another 10 days till my longest cycle (but i will be gutted if i come on then as it means i totally missed ovulation)
    C) and because if i do get a bfp it will be more of a surprise!

    never thought i wouldnt want to test
     
  2. Fraggle

    Fraggle Member

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    I never thought I woud see the day u dodnt want to test either lol... however, I think you have more of a chance this time as u had the darkest ovulation line this month than u have before... stay positive and if it is a BFN then hopefully next month will be your BFP if u catch the ovulation day like u did this month x
     
  3. bebe

    bebe Well-Known Member

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    I know how you feel it is horrid seeing that :bfn: :hugs:
     
  4. impatient1

    impatient1 Mommy to 1 Angel & 2 DD

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    Good luck on you wait.
     
  5. Jolinar

    Jolinar Mummy to Nic

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    Good luck I hope you get that :bfp: :)
     
  6. honey08

    honey08 mum2two boys/2mc

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    well uknow i dont test...well not at least till day b4 af,and thats only cos now i know how long my cycles r guna be, wot a suprise that wud be !!! good luck louisa :)
     
  7. Tink29

    Tink29 Well-Known Member

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    I know how you feel - I'm exactly the same. I've done a few tests in the past, all BFN, so I'm too nervous to test before the :witch: is due. I'm one day past my longest cycle, but who knows what my body is doing at the mo. Last month I got my AF the day I should have been ovulating, so maybe this month it's an extra long cycle! Had thought I might test tomorrow if no AF, but I may wait a little longer!

    Good luck to you x
     
  8. susan_1981

    susan_1981 Mummy to 2 boys :)

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    Is it possible you'll feel differently in the morning?

    Remember, loads of people don't "feel pregnant" when they are so that's no reason to think you're not. Good luck x
     
  9. mer01

    mer01 Waiting for brain scan

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    awww hun :hugs: i know exactly how you feel im due to test soon too and i really dont want to cos i feel like :witch: is on her way and i really hate to see :bfn:.
    :dust: for you hun hope it helps you get your :bfp:

    :hug:

    xxxx
     
  10. louisaL

    louisaL Trying for number 1

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    After writing a post asking if anyone had no symptoms at all until after 5 weeks ( i would be 5 weeks 1 day today) i feel more positive that not everyone get symptoms eventhough they really are pregnant
    but even so i've still decided not to test unless i am a week late

    15dpo and she really feels like she's coming i've even put a sanitary towel on just incase thats how positive i am !!
     
  11. wishing4ababy

    wishing4ababy mummy of 3 gorgeous LO's!

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    good luck hun. Fingers crossed for you. xx
     
  12. MamaK

    MamaK Mama to Miles

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    Hi Louisa,

    From your original post I take it you have irregular periods???

    I had them (ranging from 28-46 days) and just wanted to tell you my story quickly, which may give you some hope :)

    My last period was July 15th and I tested 7 weeks later (as this was over my longest cycle) HOWEVER I did 3 tests and they were all :bfn: :( ... I was so bummed.

    I still didnt have my period the week after and tested and it was :bfp: :)

    Also I didnt get symptoms til 4 weeks pregnant (this was about 1 week a bit after the test was positive), but I have heard of people who are pregnant and have no symptoms at all throughout their pregnancy.

    Sending baby dust and hope that you get a :bfp: :hug:
     
  13. Angeldust

    Angeldust Guest

    Good luck hun hope its a bfp for you :)
     
  14. princess_t

    princess_t Proud mom of 1

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    I had no syptoms until the other day , havent felt sick yet just backache and feeling tired more. Good luck for testing hun
     
  15. louisaL

    louisaL Trying for number 1

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    wow thanks and congratulations to you xxx

    i think what bugs me more is i was so confident i had ovulated as i had the cm and the positive opk which i took from cd9 to cd24 (ff chart said i ov on cd22) we bd'd up to cd23 and we did it on cd21/22 and 23 so day before day of and day after with preseed so i feel i am in more of a chance this month then any of my others.

    as i am 15dpo and no feeling of it or af i am now worried i wont come on till the weekend meaning i was way of track with the ovulation but then think how come if i had pos ov sticks!

    its just all so annoying but stories like yours do give me hope congrats again! xx
     
  16. laura4

    laura4 Active Member

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    Hi Louisa, I wish all the best for a :bfp: , when you test...
    Laura xx
     
  17. Visqueen

    Visqueen mum to 2 beautiful girls

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    Good luck, fingers crossed for you

    :hug:
     
  18. Fraggle

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    Hi Lou - have you tested again?? Text me if ya want x
     
  19. louisaL

    louisaL Trying for number 1

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    as the godmother of my potential child joanne you will not be finding out on here if/when i do get a :bfp: so looks like i am going to have to be more secretive ;) LOL :rofl:

    but in answer to your question i tested last night after saying i wouldnt test LOL and the answer is a bfn grrr lol but i knew anyway didnt i !
     
  20. AppleSeed

    AppleSeed TTC #1 Since July 2008

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    My toes are still crossed for you LouisaL - don't give up on the idea quite yet!
     

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