Hoep this helps, been looking for some succsess stories for you : (from another forum)
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hi there
my OH had this when we first started going out, it was great, having sex for ages but then the novelty of this wore off quickly as others here have stated...
Anyway, to cut a long story short, we decided when we were TTC that he should masturbate and then insert at this point just as he ejaculates and that's how I fell pregnant with DS. So yes, it can work very well indeed!!
We were going to seek counselling, but then we decided to change positions (rather than missionary, we started spooning) and then bang after about 4 to 5 minutes of intercourse he was able to ejaculate inside me.
Like a PP has said about her OH, mine also insisted that it wasn't psychological and that he loved me. I do think my OH relaxed more after our son came along, and changing position helped immensely.
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Male Poster:
I name changed for this but have this problem and for those who are going through this I have every sympathy. I am a regular male poster here and am too embarrased to post under my normal MN name.
I posted about this on another thread a while ago and how we deal with it. We had two lovely DSs this way.
I have a very happy sex life but I what I have found over the years is that I do not get aroused enough by penetration. I used to worry about it. It did get worse when we were TTC as I felt I had to ejaculate and was under a huge amount of pressure. I do not worry about it now though because I have talked to my wife about it extensively, and taught her how to make me aroused through masturbation, oral and other means I have very intense orgasms as a result of delaying ejaculation so there is a plus side.
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My dh suffers from this - and I know how frustrating it must be for you. Especially, if like me you are constantly trying to be positive so that you wont stress him out more... in the end its a viscious circle.
The good news is that we used the exact method you described and I got pregnant - beautiful 1yr old to prove it.
In order to not make a big deal of it, I kinda used the ploy that we were just practicing, and if anything happened, all the better but no pressure. At the same time, I knew my cycle well, so we went away for a few days around that time. Therefore, the sex every other day was more from a fun point of view.
So you both can deffo do it. We are just starting for number two... hopefully it will work as good again.
best of luck!
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this is just what i could find hun, hoped this helped a little. FX for you xxxxxxx