Oh hun, sorry to hear about the friend situation. Sometimes people can be shady.....sounds like she just may be the kinda girl that is your friend when she needs something....not to judge her character without knowing her.
I know what you mean though, when I got preggo with my first son 8 years ago all of my friends headed for the hills! We were young and no one else was having babies. I had 1 best friend that I have known for 14 years and as of last week I had to say goodbye. She started using drugs and I told her I couldn't have that in my life or for my family. It was sad to walk away but the choice was hers. I have a couple of people I talk to now and again but not real close and they don't have family plans like I do. So, I know how you feel about being alone cause I feel the same way sometimes. Poor DH has become the one who has to listen to all my girly issues!!! lol. So...I know I am far and we can't visit but you can count me in as a sounding board or a nonsense chatter