I know what you mean, I used to have tonnes of friends, but me and my OH moved from Belfast up to Coleraine (tiny place at the very top of Northern Ireland) so she could go back to university. Seemed like a perfectly good idea at the time, but now I can't find a job (well, not many, I'm a childminder and no-one seems to need their kids looked after in this credit crunch!) so I'm stuck at home all day with the dog! My OH is either always at Uni or at work, she usually works 6-11pm, and as much as I know we had to move, I do regret it sometimes. I even posted an ad on a website here looking for friends and got alot of creepy guys replying! Also, cus OH is younger than me, she tends to go out with her friends back home (she's from 40 minutes away from where we live now), because they are all still at uni too and talk to each other everyday.e Even when I do contact my 'friends' to let them know I'll be in belfast for the day, they dont wana know unless Im staying up to go out! I've never not had a friend I could just ring and say we're meeting up in an hour to go to the cinema or whatever, so its driving me mad now! My 'ex best friend' and I dont have any contact at all now because her new girlfriend didn't like how much time we spent together and made her chose her or me, and she picked her, nice! Plus, as we're TTC, I'm slightly out of the loop too cus all my friends are gay and dont know why I even want a baby! All they ever do is go out and get drunk, and I dont drink anymore, Id rather be doin the garden or reading a book! I'm hoping it'll change once I have a baby, there's a lot of groups/activities I could go to. So yeah, I'll be your friend! But in the meantime, I guess I'll just sit on here all day!