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[Jess29]

I'm right there with you. We found out yesterday we are having our 5th boy. I wanted a girl so badly but this is our last one so it will never happen. I haven't called any of my friends yet to tell them, I just can't bring myself to pick up the phone. I thought about announcing it on facebook but can't even do that.

I know it gets better. I thought our 4th would be our last and I did get over it. It took years though, I'm not gonna lie. It helps me to think about how I'll never have to buy tampons for a daughter or have to deal with all those female hormones and emotional teenage years. Boys tend to be easier when they are older.

 

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[Misscalais]

Congrats on a healthy son! Sorry you didn't hear girl, I'm also having my 3rd son and last child. It gets easier i love all my boys very much. I'm just sad ill never have a daughter.
Here's to hoping we all get some gorgeous grand daughters lol!

 

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[Noodlebear]

Congratulations! Look at it this way - there's only room for one princess in your household

 

[george83]

I've got two boys too and I'm ashamed at how sad I was when we had our second and found out he was a boy. I read on these pages though that you should try to remember that even having a girl might not have ended the way we picture it, I have visions of buying endless pink clothes having a wonderful mother-daughter relationship etc etc but a daughter could end up being a Tom boy or the relationship could be strained, I think it's important to try and remember that when you feel down x x

 

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[lauraemily17]

I felt the same at finding out out second and last is another boy. In 10 days I already feel so much better about it. Things happen for a reason and I think it takes a special kindof women to raise boys into nice young men. I was also a nightmare teenager and my mum tells me I've probably had a lucky escape!

The only real negative feeling I'm left with is bitterness that my whole TTC journey had been an emotional roller coaster. 2 miscarriages and 2 years TTC, then to have gender disappointment twice kindof feels like he final straw, why did every part of the process have to be so hard?!

 

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[truthbtold]

((Hugs)) Its great to come here and chat with moms of boys who can totally relate to our feelings. Im having my 4th boy last child so I can also relate. It gets better slowly but surely