I agree with the above post in regards to people thinking you suddenly have the money to try for the baby of the gender you always wanted.
Financially we can't afford another baby, emotionally I don't want another baby. I wish people would stop saying "oh you can try again" - I have a very strong feeling if we try again I will end up with another girl, what will people say then, oh but you can try again! some people are just idiots.
sorry for the rant..