Im gobsmacked at his attitude. Me any OH share all money. Im a SAHM and he would never say its his money or anything like that. I would absolutely leave him...
Im gobsmacked at his attitude. Me any OH share all money. Im a SAHM and he would never say its his money or anything like that. I would absolutely leave him...
We share all money too, to be honest once you've decided you're a committed couple I don't think money matters (as long as one isn't spending triple what the other is). I have a friend who if she "borrows" £5/£10 from her DH then she has to pay it back, and vice versa? Seriously if I lent my friend a tenner I wouldn't even ask for it back let alone of my DH.
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Im gobsmacked at his attitude. Me any OH share all money. Im a SAHM and he would never say its his money or anything like that. I would absolutely leave him...
We share all money too, to be honest once you've decided you're a committed couple I don't think money matters (as long as one isn't spending triple what the other is). I have a friend who if she "borrows" £5/£10 from her DH then she has to pay it back, and vice versa? Seriously if I lent my friend a tenner I wouldn't even ask for it back let alone of my DH.
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If I borrow money from my hubby to buy something just for me I feel 'obliged' to pay him back otherwise I feel guilty about it! He never wants me to pay him back though, but I secretly do still .
Thanks so much everyone! really appreciate the advise! Im still working on it but i think we could have come to a compromise, il still contribute by paying £300 a month instead of the full £500 an he'l pay the rest.
his mum is a child minder, she will look after child for free, so he thinks i should go back to work asap cos she'l b ther an we'l not have to pay for it, but i dont want his mum being the mum of my baby, i think looking after the baby for 6 months il feel ok to go back to work, but i dont want to go back earlier i want to be with my baby for as long as i can an everyone iv spoken to says 6 months is minimum! xxx