Devastated

[kevbaby27]

Hi all.
I am absolutly devastated about this but I found out today that my husband has slept with another woman. We are seperating and after trying for a year with no luck I think that God may have been shining down on me by us NOT conceiving.

I am almost 29 and terrified that I will have no chance at all - after a year and no luck I wonder by the time I ever want to try again , if I ever get over all this and start a fresh, if it will be an impossibility. Life is so hard and I am beyond miserable right now.

I wish everyone TTC so much luck and I hope anyone who reads this is blessed with a BFP soon. Thanks for the past year - over and out! x x

 

[tommyg]

Hugs to you, didn't want to read and run. I don't really know what to say other than wish you good luck for your future.

 

[ermm23a]

I'm so so sorry. I know what you're going through, trust me.

If you think you might want to work on your marriage, I would encourage you to check out marriagebuilders.com There is a lot of helpful information on how to recover marriages after infidelity.

It is truly one of the most painful indescribable things in the world. Just know that no matter what you will be ok.

 

[Babys Mother]

Hi Kevbaby27. Im so sorry to hear about your husband..

Give yourself a chance to breath and take stock of the situation..you dont say how long you have been married/ seperated... some couples do come back from situations like this, and some dont.. If you really feel that this is the end of the road for your marriage, please dont think that you are ever to old to start again..i know its probably the last thing you want to hear..but its soo true..!

Time is a great healer..i wish you all the best..

 

[maaybe2010]

Oh hun . . .

This is awful

You will be happy again, although it may take time.
Hopefully your time to try again is not too far away.

I wish you lots of future happiness

xxxxxxxx

 

[ermm23a]

Since this is anonymous- my H slept with multiple women 2 years ago. It was rough and one of the hardest things I've ever done, but after lots of work and proof of effort, etc. on his part, we have recovered and I can say that I have 100% forgiven him and today we are happier than ever.

Check out marriagebuilders if you think there is a chance you might be able to forgive him. It isn't easy to do, but it can be done. I am so so sorry you are going through this. I hate hearing about anyone having to deal with this. It's a betrayal of the worst kind.

Don't feel like you have to make any decisions right away. I gave him 3 months to prove that he could be the husband I deserved. And I polygraphed him to be sure we were starting from a place of complete honesty.

 

[reversal]

sorry to hear that, I know how you feel as it happened to me

 

[rai]

Hi Kevbaby27. Im so sorry to hear about your husband..

Give yourself a chance to breath and take stock of the situation..you dont say how long you have been married/ seperated... some couples do come back from situations like this, and some dont.. If you really feel that this is the end of the road for your marriage, please dont think that you are ever to old to start again..i know its probably the last thing you want to hear..but its soo true..!

Time is a great healer..i wish you all the best..

Babys Mother said everything I was going to say..

My thoughts are with you..

 

[lovealittle1]

So sorry to hear about this. hug:

 

[twinmummy]

Oh no how awful Good luck for the future, hopefully you'll work something out and have a reason to smile again x

 

[TySonNMe]

wishing you the best

 

[kevbaby27]

Well we have been together for 8 years and married for two of them. The sepeartion has literally happened today...I really know in my heart it is the end of the road because I am not what he wants. I just never imagined this would happen to us...

Thank you all for you kind messages. I just hope I can get my life back on track. Its very scary - I've never quite felt a feeling like this in all my life.

x x

 

[thinknboutbby]

 

[pink_bow]

Im so sorry hun {{hugs}}
Im sure that you will meet the right man for you soon then you can have a gorgeous bubs xx

 

[reversal]

Good luck with the future

 

[stardust22]

Hi all.
I am absolutly devastated about this but I found out today that my husband has slept with another woman. We are seperating and after trying for a year with no luck I think that God may have been shining down on me by us NOT conceiving.

I am almost 29 and terrified that I will have no chance at all - after a year and no luck I wonder by the time I ever want to try again , if I ever get over all this and start a fresh, if it will be an impossibility. Life is so hard and I am beyond miserable right now.

I wish everyone TTC so much luck and I hope anyone who reads this is blessed with a BFP soon. Thanks for the past year - over and out! x x

You poor thing. I am so sorry you are going through such a tough time! men can be heartless creatures.

You will be fine, you will meet someone amazing and 29 is no age at all! I met my husband only 14 months ago and I was nearly 33. I never in a million years thought I would meet anyone, or have children and had given up completely. Here I am, ttc and sadly had a mmc but we are blissfully happy and living proof that miracles happen when it comes to love!

Stay strong and NEVER give up hope
x

 

[Butterfly2]

lots of

 

[Starmoon]

Can't even try to pretend I know what you are going through. This is so awful for you. You will feel better in time and who knows, it may turn out for the best. That's probably not want you want to hear right now, but I am sure it will. All the best. xx

 

[momtoboys1]

trust in the fact that there is a destiny for you, that includes a husband and children.
Right now though you need a good support system around you and a big tub of hagen dazs ice cream

 

[amethyst77]

I am so sorry hun
And I echo momtoboys1
xxxx