So we've been ttc #2 for 6/7 months now.. but my husband told me this morning that he's changed his mind and doesn't want to any more. He doesn't want more children. He doesn't want DD to have to share attention or love. (I know that's ridiculous!!).
I just feel so devastated. I know I have my beautiful daughter and that's more than I could ever have wished for.. but I just feel like I'm grieving for a life she'll never have. No brother or sister to play with.. to build dens with and watch out for each other at school. To moan to about her parents! To get up to mischief with.. to snuggle up in bed with when she has a nightmare. All the things i had with my brother. I am so grateful for my baby girl and I don't deserve to be upset about not having another.. I know this.. but I feel cheated. I was put on this earth to have a hoard of children! To sit them all on my knee and wrap them all in my arms.. my brood.
I'm just so devastated and sad. He's just changed his mind after my friend came round with her baby and saw that DD got less attention.. and there's nothing I can do about it. I feel empty.
Anyway sorry for the selfish misery.. no one knew we were trying so there's noone I know who will understand my disappointment.
I just feel so devastated. I know I have my beautiful daughter and that's more than I could ever have wished for.. but I just feel like I'm grieving for a life she'll never have. No brother or sister to play with.. to build dens with and watch out for each other at school. To moan to about her parents! To get up to mischief with.. to snuggle up in bed with when she has a nightmare. All the things i had with my brother. I am so grateful for my baby girl and I don't deserve to be upset about not having another.. I know this.. but I feel cheated. I was put on this earth to have a hoard of children! To sit them all on my knee and wrap them all in my arms.. my brood.
I'm just so devastated and sad. He's just changed his mind after my friend came round with her baby and saw that DD got less attention.. and there's nothing I can do about it. I feel empty.
Anyway sorry for the selfish misery.. no one knew we were trying so there's noone I know who will understand my disappointment.