DH has been adamant from the begining that we'd be keeping the pregnancy a secret until at least 12 weeks (all of the key family members/friends know). Now he's invited a couple to our house next weekend who don't know yet and i wasn't planning on telling until the 12 week scan has been and gone! The thing is, everytime we have dinner with them we drink copious amounts of wine! Obviously I won't be so they're going to know straight away! The thing is we have a good few mutual friends and I'd be afraid of our good news spreading before we're ready for it to! Any advice/good excuses not to be drinking?