DH is like a dog on heat!

[kizzywizzy6]

I only had my baby 3 weeks ago and my DH is pestering me for sex but I don't feel ready yet. He is getting so annoying rubbing up against me and touching my boobs. I feel awful not satisfying his needs but i'm still bleeding and am not in the mood. Any other OHs like this?

 

[xprincessx]

i have a feeling my OH will be like this after the birth. I will not be satisfying him that way though lol

maybe you can satisfy him without DTD so that he gets his needs fulfilled and you don't have to participate in something that makes you sore and uncomfortable x

 

[blahblahblah]

I told my DH very early on to sod off, and I'd tell him when I was ready.

If you need an excuse to get him off your back for a while, HV's and GP's prefer you to wait til after your 6 week check.

 

[RainbowDrop_x]

Sod his "needs" you've just had a baby for crying out loud! If he really needs satisfying tell him to DIH (Do it himself!)

 

[Jolinar]

A rolled up newspaper applied to the nose works wonders

 

[Mrs Muffin]

Eww yuck, definately tell him to sod off. Yeah whack him on the nose

 

[Bingles]

"accidently" knee him in the bollocks he wont want it then lol

 

[bathbabe]

tell him to sod off. Or wave your maternity pads (clean obviously) or breast pads and say your off to freshen up. I cant imagine he would want it then! X

 

[pinktaffy]

i told my oh even b4 i had my lo that he wouldnt be getting any and would have to sattify himself for a good time 2 come, he laughed at me and he did wait till my lo was over 8 weeks b4 he even mentioned anything he still didnt get any though haha.

u wait till your ready your body is still up the wall dont feel presured let him sort himself out let him get a magazine or somthing hehe.

 

[RainbowDrop_x]

tell him to sod off. Or wave your maternity pads (clean obviously) or breast pads and say your off to freshen up. I cant imagine he would want it then! X

 

[WW1]

A rolled up newspaper applied to the nose works wonders

my thoughts exactly!

 

[bekkie]

if my OH had been like that 3 weeks in I would have given him some toilet paper and some hand lotion and told him to take care of himself!!

you just pushed a baby out for gosh sakes, maybe accidentally leave a birthing video on the computer so he sees what you just went through and it'll turn him off for a bit lol

 

[NeyNey]

A rolled up newspaper applied to the nose works wonders

Perfect!!!

Tell the insensitive ******* to leave you alone. You have every right to wait and tbh if you tried sex this early chances are it will uncomfortable for you at the minimum. So you just take your time hun.

 

[smokey]

threaten to get him neutured

 

[Babynumber1]

omg bles you i told my partner i didnt think id ever want sex again lol 4 weeks after labour we done it mind you and my god it was amazing lol xx

 

[Katy09]

I agree with most ppl here.. tell him to bugger off and satisfy himself

 

[Katy09]

threaten to get him neutured

HAhAHAHAHHA love it

 

[lisac25]

sorry to invade, but just seen bekkies avatar, i adore the t shirt your little one has on hilarious, love it lol
and back to the op i think your oh is being a bit insensitive really, after what your body has just been through tell him you will let him know when you feel ready!!!!

 

[Sarah10]

tell him to sod off. Or wave your maternity pads (clean obviously) or breast pads and say your off to freshen up. I cant imagine he would want it then! X

This made me laugh! lol.

Tell him he was born with 2 hands so to make good use of them
If you don't feel ready hun then just wait till you do, i still don't feel up to DTD, i'm worried it will hurt x

 

[NG09]

Tell him to bugger off. I wanted to at 2 weeks after as I felt better but was still bleeding a bit so didn't dtd until it stopped. Didn't hurt at all but everyone is different, only you know how you feel x