Since my period is not very long and irregular due to Merina my DH and I talked about buying opks. I thought we were both on the same page so I ordered them. I figured out when I would start using them and even marked it on our big calendar along with when I thought I would be ovulating. Several days into me using the opks I mentioned to my DH that they were still neg but didn't expect them to be positive until Oct 2nd. He basically told me that he didn't care about the tests and that I was taking all the fun out of baby making (with our first we just let nature take it's course but it drove me nuts bc when I was actually pregnant I had no idea how far along I was) but he told me to do what I want.
So I continued to test. I wasn't going to waste a $35 test!
Well yesterday I got my first smiley and was so excited. Our DS and I met up with my DH and I told him today was his lucky day lol and showed him a pic of the test. He seemed excited at first and then changed the subject. I waited all day long for him to come home from work and when he finally did, he kept rejecting me. He finally told me that he really wished that I didn't test bc again, I was taking all the fun out of it. Some arguing went on for a few hours and I was really upset. He I have done all this work and was so excited
But it was as if he was just shooting me down.
Thankfully we talked things over and cleared things up on both ends but ughh
So frustrating! It's not like I secretly did this behind his back or anything. We have been trying since July and discussed together to buy a opk. Anyone else experience this?
Btw we finally did the deed late at night thankfully! And afterwards I said to him "you mean to tell me that wasn't fun?" Haha
So I continued to test. I wasn't going to waste a $35 test!
Well yesterday I got my first smiley and was so excited. Our DS and I met up with my DH and I told him today was his lucky day lol and showed him a pic of the test. He seemed excited at first and then changed the subject. I waited all day long for him to come home from work and when he finally did, he kept rejecting me. He finally told me that he really wished that I didn't test bc again, I was taking all the fun out of it. Some arguing went on for a few hours and I was really upset. He I have done all this work and was so excited
But it was as if he was just shooting me down.
Thankfully we talked things over and cleared things up on both ends but ughh
So frustrating! It's not like I secretly did this behind his back or anything. We have been trying since July and discussed together to buy a opk. Anyone else experience this?
Btw we finally did the deed late at night thankfully! And afterwards I said to him "you mean to tell me that wasn't fun?" Haha