Anyone else experienced this? DH is SO insensitive! I often wonder if he really wants to have a baby... It took me forever to get him to stop laughing at me and rolling his eyes when I put my rear on a pillow after BDing. Then he hints to me that the reason we aren't successful is because I smoked a few times socially... ??? I looked back at my charts and every month we seemed to either miss a day when I had a +OPK or we would miss a few days during the window. Certainly not because we were busy because I am unemployed up until two days ago. We suspect he has a low sperm count because when he was younger, a doctor messed up a jaw surgery and cut his pituitary gland. He had to go on growth hormone until he was 21. BUT he refuses to get a SA done. I understand the reluctance, but hey, that's the easy part! If it's not him then I have to endure tons of painful testing... and in the end if we are successful, I am the one that has to endure 9 months of carrying another human being inside of me and go through the labor process to get it out! I tell him that's fine that he doesn't want to do a SA, but obviously something is not working. It took me forever to convince him to let me buy Pre-Seed, and now he's rolling his eyes at me again b/c it takes 15 min. to soak in and he thinks it's ridiculous to use a syringe and have to wait. Make me feel like a freak why don't ya? I tell him about instead soft cups and he flipped out! He says he doesn't want to do anything un-natural and "going" in a cup is ********. I tell him he doesn't have to, I can put it in after we BD, and he still gets down my back about making a baby 'the natural way'. So what if the doctor tells us IVF or IUI is our only option? Are we S.O.L.?? Today I am emotional anyways and I made the comment that I got a fever blister... which I only get when I'm stressed out. He says "About your new job?" I say "Probably, and the whole worrying about getting pregnant thing.." He says "Just relax, it will happen when it happens. Don't worry about it." I say "Easy for you to say!" (everyone who is TTCing knows not to say "It will happen when it happens" or "All in God's timing" b/c it just doesn't help!) He literally rolls his eyes, makes a big huff, and stomps off actually growling at me! Where is the sensitivity? The reason I'm worried is b/c I'm obviously the only one working at this. He gets to do the fun part... when he wants to... I'm so upset right now. Anyone else had this problem w/ DH??