Dirty pictures.? Really.?

[charxxx]

Hello everyone..

This is a slightly random post but I had to ask someone!..

Is it just me.. Or is sending dirty pictures with a bump abit unsexy? Or atleast thats how it makes me feel!..

My bf still asks for pics from me even though I'm growing bigger everyday and I'm running out of ideas on what poses and stuff makes the whole situation seem more sexy lmao I used to send him naughty pics all the time even before we "got together" properly only difference was I was a small size 10 and felt alot better about myself.

I dont really wanna tell him how it makes me feel cause even though I dont give 2 hoots about him using porn I dont want him to go to someone else for pics all because I've told him that its really not that hot anymore lol.. AHH what to do?!
xx

 

[sueh81]

my guess is that he still finds you just as sexy with your bump as he did before you got pregnant! Saying that though I don't feel highly attractive anymore with huge jugs and a belly the size of jupiter, even though DH tells me everyday that I still look sexy as ever!
If he's still turned on by it, then I don't see any harm in sending the pics - it prob is a huge turn on for him, but only if you are comfortable doing so - you shouldn't be forced into doing something you're not happy about!!
xx
(sorry to go o/t but i've just noticed you're due on my 30th birthday!! )

 

[Frecks]

Lol Hun you're brave, I haven't had one photo taken since I was pregnant in fear of what it'll come out like!! Lol. I dunno what to do, maybe make a joke of it say doesn't he find your bump off-putting, some blokes are quite into the whole pregnancy thing! (mine not being one of them lol), if he says it doesn't bother him and you feel comfortable then go for it! Otherwise you could do like shots which hide your bump a bit? Sorry I know I'm not much use and have just been rambling! Lol xxx

 

[charxxx]

Yeah I must admit actually I'm glad he still asks because if he didnt I'd probably be moaning that he doesnt find me attractive anymore haha!

& Awww theres been a few people that have told me I'm due on their bdays Its the day after my mums aswell so I keep saying if shes a day early she'll be the thunder stealer! Haha xxx

 

[charxxx]

Lol Hun you're brave, I haven't had one photo taken since I was pregnant in fear of what it'll come out like!! Lol. I dunno what to do, maybe make a joke of it say doesn't he find your bump off-putting, some blokes are quite into the whole pregnancy thing! (mine not being one of them lol), if he says it doesn't bother him and you feel comfortable then go for it! Otherwise you could do like shots which hide your bump a bit? Sorry I know I'm not much use and have just been rambling! Lol xxx

Awww nah its not rambling every input is a help! I might try hiding the bump I think it's do-able for now but in a couple of weeks hes going to have to use the ones he already has! Lmao
Atleast hopefully we'll be moving in together soon so he wont need pictures? Bit off the subject but we are viewing 3 houses on wed Eeeekk exciting xxx

 

[jessyjones]

LOL. the only photos i will take or let anyone take is so i can see how my bump is looking... anything dirty is out of the question cos i currently feel like a hippo!
my partner told me though ( which i found quite amusing ) that from the back you cant even tell im pregnant.... then when i turn its like BOOOM! check out the gut! lol
Twin pregnancy is certainly not a sexy thing in anyway shape or form. i got leaky boobs that must weigh about a stone each! a huge belly, im groggy, tired and generally unsexy... not only that i got stupid little spidervein things allover my chest which is also contributing to my unsexyness at the moment!

definatley take my hat off to you for being so brave lol

 

[Shell N Bump]

I dont feel as sexy anymore either, I try and cover up my bump if we're having sex, altho it doesnt bother my oh one bit it makes me a bit paranoid lol
I guess if he still wants them, give them to him, he probably wouldnt ask if he found you unsexy with a bump

 

[Maman]

lol ive never really done that with my husband anyway, but maybe just tell him? If my husbands after a bit of sexytime in the day he comes home at lunch and we have a quickie lol.

 

[charxxx]

LOL. the only photos i will take or let anyone take is so i can see how my bump is looking... anything dirty is out of the question cos i currently feel like a hippo!
my partner told me though ( which i found quite amusing ) that from the back you cant even tell im pregnant.... then when i turn its like BOOOM! check out the gut! lol
Twin pregnancy is certainly not a sexy thing in anyway shape or form. i got leaky boobs that must weigh about a stone each! a huge belly, im groggy, tired and generally unsexy... not only that i got stupid little spidervein things allover my chest which is also contributing to my unsexyness at the moment!

definatley take my hat off to you for being so brave lol

Awww! Bless ya

& Twins? How exciting! I've started getting the spidervein things aswell and on the tops of my legs -_- not amused lol

But yeah definatly feeling the un-sexiness bit I feel huge aswell, I never really got much of a bump with my daughter but this time round.. god! Lol I feel like a sumo wrestler xx

 

[t33cup]

It seems to make no difference to how attractive the men find us, and some maybe even moreso, i think my oh likes it far more than me. Id definitely not be brave enough to take pics atm! and I just dont really feel sexy in general. Attractive still yeah,for sure, when ive had a good nights sleep (rare) and make up on and nice clothes i have to do that, pregnancy doesnt stop you being attractive, but sexy? but feeling sexy? I dont, wish i did though and didnt feel like jabba the hut or budda and groggy achey and tired out lol.

 

[Maman]

see, i do feel sexy, my body after my son looked like a train wreck. i had so much saggy skin its awful but since being pregnant, its all tightened round my bump and ive lost some of my weight (dont know how!) and my skin has cleared up not to mention my pcos symptoms going. i look better naked than in clothes at the moment

I think that men do find pregnant women sexy

 

[Blah11]

Some people feel their sexiest when pregnant and i dont think theres anything wrong with that at all. (i dont for the record!).

 

[lesleyann]

How about some nice outfits like baby dolls? they cover up the bump so its not a nakie bump but can still be a "sexy" picture?

 

[charxxx]

Yeah I think they do, My bf was on the phone to me a min ago on his break and he actually randomly bought up the other night we were "together" and he said its amazing when I'm pregnant My response was obviously "so what about when I'm not??" And he just said its still amazing he said he was making a point that its still is when I'm pregnant lol xx

 

[tweedy]

my hubbie said last night that he is finding me more attractive while pregnant, we've quiet a lazy sex life normally and are up to about twice a week now, which is really weird for us. after we concieved my daughter we layed off everything till she was nearly 2 months old, trying for over 2 years to get pregnant with 2 loses, it just lost it's magic, this time, even though we tried for 3 months after another miscarriage, he's after it more than ever. it gets interesting with a 3 year old, but for now we're managing.

i was a bit shocked that he likes me better, but i had lost a lot of weight and he always likes it better when i have a bit of meat on me, so if nothing else, i'll not feel pressurised into getting back into a size 12 any time soon.