AshleyLK
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The reason I started to have children was because my husband wanted them so badly. Our first was a girl and of course I was disappointed because I knew he wanted a boy. Our daughter is the love of our lives but it doesn't fulfill my husbands want for a boy. Also did I mention his family name will die with him if he doesn't have a boy? So much pressure. Now, 16 weeks ago I became pregnant again. So hopeful for a boy again, but lo and behold, just found out it is a girl. I had awful thoughts such as pregnancy termination but I couldn't ever do that.
Now I am considering if I should get pregnant again....also I am considering more extreme(and expensive) measures, such as invetro fertilization with gender selection. It would wipe out our savings but it would prevent us from having three girls.
I hate that I feel this way.
Now I am considering if I should get pregnant again....also I am considering more extreme(and expensive) measures, such as invetro fertilization with gender selection. It would wipe out our savings but it would prevent us from having three girls.
I hate that I feel this way.