hi please tell me that im not that only one going through this. we don't do it to often anymore because it tends to hurt. if it didn't hurt then we would be doing it everyday trust me. is it normal to hurt to have sex during the second trimester? didn't have this problem in the first trimester. it sometimes feels like its ripping down there. that what it feels like. i have also noticed that my orgasims are ALOT stronger now in the second trimester than the first part of pregnancy. we have tried lubrication and ( it was the ky warm and massage kind) thats the only thing we have now. could that maybe be part of the problem to? thanks for reading.