So, i made my inital appointment on Jan 6th, they said to come in on the 26th. Then they called a few days later asking me to come in on the 31st at 10am. They called yet again, asking if i could come in the same day, only at 3:00pm because my doctor was going to be "in surgery all day". They called me this morning confirming my appointment. So i called back and had a few questions. I asked if they would be giving me an ultrasound. Ill be at 8 weeks, 1 day on the date of my appointment. She said that they dont normally give ultrasounds until TWENTY WEEKS, to determine sex. Im very very dissapointed. Everyone Ive talked to, and even my step-sister-in-law had TWO ultrasounds, and we are both at 8 weeks almost. The nurse said i could ask, but more than likely, i wont be getting one. Im very very sad about this. Ive had this whole "omg, am i making this up" feeling, and i want to see for myself that theres actually a baby there. I cant stand the thought of waiting 20 weeks to see. she also said they would give me another PG test, but the last one i took the positive line was really really faint compared to the ones i took earlier that month, so what if theres no line this time? i heard after so many weeks, tests are null and void. im just so confused. i dont know what to do. so far, im not happy with the amount of back and forth thats been going on. I asked for the number to my sister in laws doctor so if im not completely satisfied with this one, i can go to the other one. it just seems weird to me. everyone ive heard from, or about has had a scan at 8 weeks, even if there are no complications.