Maybe I'll just TTC and figure out the rest after it happens? I know it's not a good idea, and I won't. But I really want to sometimes. I know everything will work out but "working out" and graduating college, getting a better job, moving to a bigger house, getting married, etc are 2 different things. But I feel like if we had #2 anytime after 9 months from now... that's tons of time to at least get a college certificate, the baby could be in our room for awhile, that's time to save money.. we could just do a civil ceremony or a destination wedding..