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I have a very low income and whenever we want something that doesnt come under the normal daily needs I generally sell stuff so I can buy whatever it is.
I am selling a few of Jasons toys to buy him more interesting and useful toys. Aimee knows this and knows what he is getting. She asked me how come he gets new toys and I tell her the truth which she accepts.
The thing is there is this set from the disney store she says she really wants but I cannot afford to buy her it outright. We are getting a bit cash at the end of the month but she needs shoes and a haircut which will come out of that.
She mentions it to her daddy and of course he quickly puts her straight and says she cannot get it because we have no pennies and if she wants a new toy she will have to sell one of her things like I do with Jason.
This made me feel so guilty, I was hoping there would be enough left off what I make off ebay but I don't think there will be.
The toy she picked to sell she just got for christmas from her nan. She doesnt play with it but It just feels wrong for her to have to do this.
She wanted me to advertise it whilst she was out with her dad so maybe it would sell today but I havent because I want to talk it over with her again.
She is only 6 but can be very grown up and understanding about these things.
As I was growing up if I wanted something and my mum didnt have the cash I just didnt get it. Full stop.
My OH on the other hand was brought up like this. He sold stuff to get stuff.
What do you honestly think? Is it harsh? Or an important life lesson?
I am selling a few of Jasons toys to buy him more interesting and useful toys. Aimee knows this and knows what he is getting. She asked me how come he gets new toys and I tell her the truth which she accepts.
The thing is there is this set from the disney store she says she really wants but I cannot afford to buy her it outright. We are getting a bit cash at the end of the month but she needs shoes and a haircut which will come out of that.
She mentions it to her daddy and of course he quickly puts her straight and says she cannot get it because we have no pennies and if she wants a new toy she will have to sell one of her things like I do with Jason.
This made me feel so guilty, I was hoping there would be enough left off what I make off ebay but I don't think there will be.
The toy she picked to sell she just got for christmas from her nan. She doesnt play with it but It just feels wrong for her to have to do this.
She wanted me to advertise it whilst she was out with her dad so maybe it would sell today but I havent because I want to talk it over with her again.
She is only 6 but can be very grown up and understanding about these things.
As I was growing up if I wanted something and my mum didnt have the cash I just didnt get it. Full stop.
My OH on the other hand was brought up like this. He sold stuff to get stuff.
What do you honestly think? Is it harsh? Or an important life lesson?