does down below look different after birth?

ms.hope

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Hey Ladies,


I was wondering if any of you have used a mirror to look at your lady bits:blush: just to see what going on and how things look after birth? I had a 2nd degree tear and only this week I used a mirror to look down there and I am not inmpressed:growlmad: It definitely looks different the stitches dissolved but my labia looks stretched and my vaginal opening wider:cry:
 
Sorry it does change. Yours will still be healing for awhile yet.
 
I have had 2 vaginal births. The last one was 2.5yrs ago, but it was a breeze with no tearing. My first was very traumatic though, 4th degree episiotomy. My private area hasn't looked the same since. I have a piece of skin that hangs down from my vaginal opening, and almost looks like a 3rd labia. (Sorry TMI) It makes intercourse a bit uncomfortable initially sometimes. After the twins are born(may do C-section) I'm going to get plastic surgery done to "fix" my breasts and private area. Basically it's just to put everything back where it was before kids. My husband doesn't care in the slightest, but if he's supportive of me getting it done, as long as I'm doing it for myself and not because I think it's something he wants. I know it kind of stinks. That's a side effect people don't really talk about.
 
ive had a look and doesnt look massively different? just can see where its stitched up x
 
Ohmygosh yes!! My husband was quite shocked at how much bigger it was. Cavernous is a word that comes to mind....bahahhhaaa!!!! But I like it. Sex is better now.
 
Yep, my vaginal opening is def bigger, and I feel looser when OH and I dtd. Also, my labia has what looks like a tiny tiny peice missing. Its so small I'm sure OH has never noticed but I did.
 
I am seriously thinking about getting things fixed down there, i don't think I could allow my partner to go down there with it looking like this:haha:
 
I don't think it looks too much different? Can just see where its stitched
 
Yeah.. I can see my urethra now.. I know I couldn't before babies. Ugh. But sex feels great.
 
WSS^
I was so scared to look down there. I had a third degree tear and I didn't look until it was all healed up.
 
I checked out my area about 3/4days after birth as I was curious and it scared the hell out of me.
I looked again at about 2 weeks pp and there was a huge difference it looked a lot better.
Now 15months on every thing is back to normal, I have always had a 'tight' vjay before pregnancy and it feels Evan tighter now and sex is so much better.
 
I checked out my area about 3/4days after birth as I was curious and it scared the hell out of me.
I looked again at about 2 weeks pp and there was a huge difference it looked a lot better.
Now 15months on every thing is back to normal, I have always had a 'tight' vjay before pregnancy and it feels Evan tighter now and sex is so much better.

:haha: I guess it is a good thing I did not look right after birth huh, but mine still looks different-I guess I need to be patient as baby is not even 2 months yet xoxo
 

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