i can put my hand up to this!! Never thought i would & never thought it was true!! I was one of those people who saw women twice or 3 times my weight with a bunch of kids & think it has nothing to do with weight but after almost 8 years of trying with & without fertility treatment (4 cycles clomid then 4 cycles iui neither worked) i decided to take time off & give the weigh loss a chance & i also took a 3 week holiday visiting family overseas
It took me over 6 months to lose 5kgs!! (i am insulin resistant & boarder line PCOS) but my fertility Dr was impressed when i had my re-view with him. We decided before we saw him that i wanted to take another 6 months to try lose another 5 or so kgs & the Dr suggested we give clomid another go- he all it takes is a little loss for it to help (apparently as little as 8% of your body fat or something like that).
I was meant to take 2 50mg tablets over 5 days but messed up & i only took 1 each day- i thought i had messed our chances but the nurses said you never know so go to your blood tests. The first one was high which the nurse said could indicate a pregnancy but i deffo did ovulate- a few days later i was to have another blood test but this time she decided to stick a pregnancy test on the end of it & to my shock/ surprise it was positive!!
Here i am 22 weeks later (i found out at 5 or so weeks)
I do think a lot of other things came together also which may have helped (loseing weight, eating more healthy, exercising, taking time out for me, visiting family, deciding well f*** you world i don't wana leave a kid here anyways- that was protecting myself from it hurting anymore)
I so hope you find what works for you! try not to give up hun!
xo