does your partners past bother you?

i am super bothered that mr.man did the things he did with his ex. it annoys me so much so to the point that what he did with her 90% of the time i'd refuse to do it, even going as far as not going on same low priced holidays website i'm so petty, and i admit that! and that he moved in with her, i console myself with the fact that he didn't really like her and was with her cause he couldn't 'pay all the rent and bills by his self then' and it came out that they had sex in the family changing rooms at alton towers hotel swimming pool and it makes my blood boil (although he swears blind on his life etc etc that it wasn't because she was hot or he wanted her, he just wanted to get his 'teenage kicks' so to speak or 'tweny something kicks' should we call it )... but i don't know why though, as with my ex and other past people i have been with/close to/slept with also have a past and amazingly enough have had sex with other people shock horror! and it hasn't bothered me at all?! i think i'm either super crazy or super crazy over my mr.man.

so, as title asks does your partners past bother you?

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why does it sound like i am 'insecure'? i don't see how me saying i don't want to go on same type of holiday they went on makes me 'insecure' i'm not concerned/worried that he's about to try and relive their relationship with me or whatever else 'insecure' would imply. i just wanna experience his firsts with him. to be there to make that memory with him. i don't think that makes me 'insecure' about our relationship. i'm annoyed that she got to experience things with him first, not 'insecure' about it. tosee his face, his reaction first. as of course2nd time doing something you know what to expect, so 1st reactions/impressions aren't there, and them thoughts/feelings/reactions for the 1st time is something that wont ever be there again.
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don't get how it makes me 'clingy' or 'obsessive' either?

i don't think i am 'clingy' or 'obsessive'... but i do think life is too short and you never know when somethingcould happen so would like to die knowing that i experiend some kind of first with him, that hadn't already been done before that was new to us both and it is really bloody annoying that alot of things we have both done for the first time is with other people.

him having sex with other people pffft... he just should of stayed pure for me so i could corrupt him

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oh gosh what a small world it is!

even us having a baby isn't a first though, as i have a 3yo with past partner

he makes me feel so sorry for her though when he says stuff like 'i used to always check her arm to make sure she hadn't had the implant taken out' i just think you sound like such a horrible person and i'd be so offended if you did that to/with me

think it annoys me morewith her that she shared all these first is the fact that she's really 2 faced and 'getting in' with and getting her little comments in to literally everybody me/mr.man knew/knows/was friends with... before growing up/paying bills/babies/pregnancy took over as we just don't havethe time/energy/finances available to sustain that kind of lifestyle, not that we are bothered about the 'friends' as we have our own life to live.

hows this for weird... when me and ex split up he went out on a date (to weatherspoons ) with mr.mans ex within a week we only know cause she texted mr.man to tellhim we were sat eating pizza saying 'is that incest on some kind of level?'

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me and ex were young when we got together yet he had more of a past than my mr.man

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please don't remind me

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