dont know how i feel

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  1. loop

    loop Well-Known Member

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    right well i know lil imogen is only 18days old and well everyone has asked are we goin to have any more......
    my oh says no he doesnt want any more but i dont know how i feel about that im happy with the 2 that i have got but saying that im not going to have any more makes me feel really say i mean im only 23 im not saying that i want another baby in the next cpl of years but sumtime in the future i would like to have another one my oh is ony 26 and i just feel that saying no is to any more is taking like taking a apart of me away if you know what i mean and its making me sad to think that we wont have any more.
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    sorry just another ramble x
     
  2. Tezzy

    Tezzy Mum of 2 TTCAL

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    give him a few months... im sure he'll change his mind!
     
  3. ablaze

    ablaze lucky mum of one of each!

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    this reminds me of me! except now the roles are reversed! i wanted 3 an he wanted 2, now he wants 3 an i want no more lol!!

    give it a few month hun! or even years! no one knows what 2mo may bring! hey i may even change my mind and want more! liek u said ur only young! its normal to feel broody not long after birth xxx
     
  4. Trinity

    Trinity Well-Known Member

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    I agree ... give it a while and he may change his mind. :hugs:
     
  5. Kina

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    Loop, DH is 27 and I'm 25. He doesn't want anymore but I can't bear the thought that my baby making days are over! I'm hoping to have another in around 5 years time :) By then he should have softened ;)
     
  6. ablaze

    ablaze lucky mum of one of each!

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    how u feeling today loop? i always feel better gettin things off my chest a lil :hugs:
     
  7. Amanda

    Amanda Mum of 3

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    Took me 13 years to have another! Never say never.:hugs:
     
  8. loop

    loop Well-Known Member

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    im still feelin down bout it and if i try to talk 2 him he just pulls a face. i hope tha he does change his mind
     
  9. Imi

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    Ahh give him time, you just had imogen!!

    He'll come round .... eventually lol

    xxx
     
  10. loop

    loop Well-Known Member

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    yea i know but just the thought of not having ne more makes me feel sad
     
  11. KX

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    Hi Loop,

    Your OH sounds like mine, I've discussed another and he was like no, but has come round to the idea to another couple when these one's are at school.

    Id definitley say give hime time, months and he will of changed his mind.

    Dont be down hun :hugs:
     

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