Me and OH still dont know if we should settle here in UK or settle in his country in US or wait until we are both old enough for me to sponsor him to live here. What would you do based on these circumstances. We both wait 3 years until we are both 21 for us to marry and settle here(UK). OR We both live in separate countries for 3 years and we will visit each other every couple of months. Hopefully I would be pregnant or have had baby so will take him/her too. OR We both marry here and settle in US but it would take a year + to process visa. Also, i wouldnt have family there just my Husband and nobody to help with childcare if i go back to work. Its already decided that we will be TTC in Dec this year, since i just have this terrible feeling it will take me at least a year to get pregnant and i dont want to waste time.