jools21
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Had my first GP appt today and she had referred me to the EPU for an early scan because I am having pains in my lower left side. I had an examination and she said everything felt healthy and I am 5+1 so I can have a scan next week if the pain persists. I am really unsure about this scan, I am so worried that they wont be able to see anything and have me worried for the next 6 weeks! I am already convinced there is nothing there and I imagined the positive test (anyone else feel like this?)
Also an update on the OH situation for those who have supported me so far. We went out for a meal last night so we could talk in a place neither of us could shout or stomp off in and I told him that I wanted to keep my baby and its up to him if he leaves or stays and that he has a choice. He spent all day sulking but has said he isn't going anywhere. Last night I could barely move without him making sure I was ok (he is clearly going to be watching me like a hawk) and today he came with me to my appointment. He seems to be taking it in his stride but then he takes everything in his stride. We have some viewings for houses set up for next week so hopefully we can get back on an even keel once we are off my mums sofa!
I just wanted to say thank you for everyone that gave me support and advice this week, I hope I can return the favour.
I am now officially EXCITED!!!!! xxx
Also an update on the OH situation for those who have supported me so far. We went out for a meal last night so we could talk in a place neither of us could shout or stomp off in and I told him that I wanted to keep my baby and its up to him if he leaves or stays and that he has a choice. He spent all day sulking but has said he isn't going anywhere. Last night I could barely move without him making sure I was ok (he is clearly going to be watching me like a hawk) and today he came with me to my appointment. He seems to be taking it in his stride but then he takes everything in his stride. We have some viewings for houses set up for next week so hopefully we can get back on an even keel once we are off my mums sofa!
I just wanted to say thank you for everyone that gave me support and advice this week, I hope I can return the favour.
I am now officially EXCITED!!!!! xxx
I guess he realized that you don't really need him so you told him it is up to you if you want to be in our lives and I guess he decided to stay! now make sure you let him know he is welcome to stay they can be such babies lol !! Congrats and I hope all goes well for you guys 
