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I debated for a few days putting this up but here goes. I just need to hear from others in this same boat and what, if any, solutions there may be. Long story short, my DF is having problems ejaculating. No probs getting erect, just ejaculating. Obviously our TTC efforts are dead in the water if he can't finish! Beyond the TTC I'm here feeling like I'm not sexy enough or my sex techniques aren't good enough to get him off. Sorry if TMI but, damn, I'm so depressed!!! He says it's his brain...that he get to "thinking" and it disturbs his ability to get off. I was flabbergasted! I asked him if he's having doubts about having a baby and he says no but I stopped short of pointing out that we can't conceive if he doesn't let go and finish. I feel so inadequate, especially since I suspect he'd have no problem doing it solo. I just want to cry and bang my head into a wall..fml. He says it's mental not physical, so that makes me feel like I'm not doing something right in the bedroom. Have any of you ever experienced this or am I the unlucky one.