My attorney: "I spoke with him this afternoon. Bottom line: He says he doesn't know that he's the father. I think I can get him to cooperate with a paternity test. That's the first step. Then we go from there. For now, it's probably best for you not to contact him." ---sent March 31 I sent him a rant about having a CVS paternity procedure and how upset I am that this man is denying it's his when I thought we were almost engaged, ergo I thought we were exclusive. (Of course he was married, but I was FAITHFUL). My lawyer: "Needless to say, you shouldn't take anything he says at face value. No doubt he's a pathetic, lying, denying sociopath. Still, by the dictates and limitations of our legal system, it is highly unlikely that he has any criminal liability. I can't stop emphasizing to you, though, that you gain nothing by continuing to think in this direction. I know it won't be easy, and it won't happen right away, but you need to try to stop thinking about him..." I want to pull my hair out. So, this is nothing legally I can do?! I feel like the legal system fails women. For the moment I've stopped thinking about him, only because I'm really sick of crying about it. But I'm still furious at the whole situation, and how helpless I am to retaliate against this evil man who is now denying his child. Sorry, just needed a rant. And maybe a hug.