this is how i feel right now had an argument with OH over my son (from previous relationship) as all we ever do argue about is my son, apparently im to soft and i think hes to hard. OH now says this has put a wedge between our relationship and he then blurts out "if i go im taking Amy with me" this comment has really hurt me and i cant stop crying, feel like im unloveable
OH used to threaten that if he left, Alexa was going with him, and yes, I know it hurts-he's likely just bluffing-my OH admitted that he would not take Alexa and he just said it-maybe your OH was bluffing? Regardless, you are the mom, and you get custody unless there is a very good reason not to.