Extremely embarrassing question???

[Jadeblue18]

My husband and I and I noticed that my vaginal fluid was EWconsistency. It never usually is, it's just wet. Then AFTER ejaculation, it was slippery/creamy/lotion like (which is normal.. that's how it is all the time) I'm wondering if sex can bring on EWCM? I'm on CD 11. Umm.. the EW fluid was very clear and extremely stretchy like I could literally stretch it between my thumb and pinky without it breaking. Is that EWCM or just *turn on fluid* lol

 

[rdy4number2]

It's probably arousal fluid. I get that stretchy stuff every time regardless of where I am in my cycle.

 

[sammy1205]

IDK if you could stretch it without it breaking,especially between your thumb and pinky (that is a long stretch) I would vote for true EWCM+ it was there before any of his "men" showed up, LOL, maybe the spermies mixed with the EWCM made it look creamy and lotiony.
Are you OPK or temping?

 

[sammy1205]

BTW, ask all the embarrassing ?'s you want, we all do, we have NO shame when it comes to TTC!

 

[Jadeblue18]

IDK if you could stretch it without it breaking,especially between your thumb and pinky (that is a long stretch) I would vote for true EWCM+ it was there before any of his "men" showed up, LOL, maybe the spermies mixed with the EWCM made it look creamy and lotiony.
Are you OPK or temping?

Lol I meant MY ejaculation. I went before husband lol so spermies weren't there at the time

 

[whimesy3]

I think it could because wouldnt the friction from his penis on your cervix spread it around? Its probably a mix of all...

 

[Jadeblue18]

Temping but not taking OPK's as they are always ++++

 

[whimesy3]

IDK if you could stretch it without it breaking,especially between your thumb and pinky (that is a long stretch) I would vote for true EWCM+ it was there before any of his "men" showed up, LOL, maybe the spermies mixed with the EWCM made it look creamy and lotiony.
Are you OPK or temping?

Lol I meant MY ejaculation. I went before husband lol so spermies weren't there at the time

I heard its not good to go before your OH.. because the fluids we secrete when we orgasm kills sperm! I can see if my TTC buddy can provide the link that says this.

 

[Jadeblue18]

IDK if you could stretch it without it breaking,especially between your thumb and pinky (that is a long stretch) I would vote for true EWCM+ it was there before any of his "men" showed up, LOL, maybe the spermies mixed with the EWCM made it look creamy and lotiony.
Are you OPK or temping?

Lol I meant MY ejaculation. I went before husband lol so spermies weren't there at the time

I heard its not good to go before your OH.. because the fluids we secrete when we orgasm kills sperm! I can see if my TTC buddy can provide the link that says this.

Yeah I know but sometimes I forget that and it feels way too good to hold on. Plus normally when I go, it sets him off immediately.

 

[Jess137]

I prefer to go after DH, so that my orgasm helps my cervix dip into the pool of semen.

And don't worry about being embarrassed - we have no limits on what we talk about here!

 

[sma1588]

hi hun jumping in from 3rd tri,
most likly if you didnt notice it through out the day its your own fluid from sex. if u notice it during the day or night not during or after dtd then its ewcm. it will seem like u have that same fluid that u had when u checked it this time and when u dtd it will be like tooooons more !!!!! if u can try to go after OH and try to stay in bed for awhile after ....good luck with everything