Family rant!!! LONG!!

[snoopchick82]

So ill start off by giving u a lil low down on my family...

NAN: Never really liked me always picked on me and for some reason picked me out of all our family to be bitter against.

MUM: Pushed us away when my step dad died is now more interested in booze and her new fella and his family.

SISTER: 4 years between us she older... Im always there for her and bailing her out.. But never there for me...

So yesterday we all decided to go see my nan since being pregnant ive wanted nothing but my family around me.
Got to my nans everything started off ok then things started to turn to me and get nasty.
Firstly i got the mick taken out of me for eating 5 rich tea biscuits with my cup of tea!! They saying i was fat enough already and need to lay off the biscuits.
Then my sister kept telling me to get off my fat arse and sit on the floor so she could have my seat but i wouldnt move.
Then we got talking about docs and prescriptions and my sister said should think u need proof to show ur pregnant they mite mistake u as fat!.
Everything that came out of there mouths was nasty!

After leaving my nans my mum suggested going to the pub and having a drink so my sister jumped to the chance as she likes her drink too.
We got there then i kept getting the mick taking out of me cos all i drank was diet coke (Hello im pregnant)
OH picked me up in the end where i had too much and nearly in tears...

All my life ive been bullied about my weight and even had a eating disorder in high school ive excepted that i will never be a size zero but to be called fat while carrying the most precious thing in my life has got me down and feeling really low...
Sorry for long rant needed to get it off my chest xx

 

[DivaSatanica]

Ah hun, I'm sorry your family are so unsupportive. Keep a good head on your shoulders and take comfort in the fact that you can be the better person.

 

[Ice Cold Cube]

That's awful. The very people who should care for you and be supporting you, are treating you like sh1t.

If I were you I'd distance myself from them all. If you're getting nothing but grief from them, then what's the point?

Concentrate on your new family now, and how wonderful it is going to be when the baby is here. Don't let them get you down - you are so much better than them.

Laura x

 

[snoopchick82]

I do try but i just wanted to be close again want a nice family for when my lil girl is here

 

[anna matronic]

Wankers

Do you want to be close to a family that are mean and nasty bullies?

If it makes you feel better I had 8 digestives with my tea early x x x x

 

[DivaSatanica]

I do try but i just wanted to be close again want a nice family for when my lil girl is here

Thats completely understandable.....it too bad they don't see the great opportunity for everyone to reconnect. I hope things get better for you.

 

[amandaawesome]

your family are being vile. please don't subject yourself to being around that. i know how important it is to have family and want that close family bond but it sounds like they are JEALOUS of you. i would put money on it that your sister feels very insecure and jealous weather she has any right to or it makes sense or not. either that or she is just a miserable person. i feel for you love. you deserve better than that. xoxo

 

[snoopchick82]

Thanks everyone i feel my sister could be a little jealous ive been in a relationship for 10 years and happy... She has a thing where she likes picking up all these bad men that hit her and treat her like shit...
Its horrible having no family at all i know i have one with my OH and new baby on the way but sometimes i just need my mum and dad lol!!!
I washed my hands of them yesterday x