I'd like to get DH a Fathers' Day card from Dinky (current bump), and from Morgan (miscarried baby), but I'm not sure how to go about it. If I just put it from Dinky, DH would be upset that I missed off Morgan (he has gotten upset before at things like me saying I wanted to get a necklace made with Dinky's footprint on it and he was saying well, Morgan never had that so we can't just do that for Dinky). But if I put Morgan on this year, what do I do in future years? I don't want Dinky to feel overshadowed by Morgan, IYKWIM, though I have no problem telling him about our loss. And I'd feel better not starting something like putting Morgan on cards than starting and just trailing off over the years like we're forgetting him or something. I know this might seem silly to some people (it certainly would to my in-laws), but it has always been important to DH and me that Morgan was acknowledged as a real baby who happened to die before being born, rather than 'just' a failed pregnancy. Even if a lot of the world doesn't see him like that, DH and I do.