Ok, so my OH's birthday and father's day both fall on 19th June this year. My official due date is 27th June, so technically the baby should still be a bump, but the midwife did mention that they might try to get her out earlier because she's big and they don't know if I'll be able to deliver a huge baby. My dilemma is, do I get him a father's day and birthday present and card from the baby or not? On one hand, I keep thinking no because he's not a father unless she's here, but on the other hand, I think, well if she is here it'd suck for him if he didn't get something from her on his first birthday and father's day as a dad. And then if I do decide to get him something, what do I get him? It's all so confusing!!! Any advice would be appreciated!! P.S: I have talked to him about it and he says to do what I think is best which doesn't help at all!