Feel like I am losing my mind!

KiraLeigh

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Hello ladies,

I have had 4 miscarriages over the 7 years I have been trying, all of them ending before 6 weeks.

I am pregnant again and am currently 5 weeks.

Today I have noticed my breast tenderness has gone and I haven't had any cramping for the past few days.

I have an appointment with my specialist next week but I am loosing my mind with worry.

I just want my baby so badly!
 
:hugs: I hope all goes well at the appointment and you are able to relax. 4 miscarriages, I'm so sorry. Hoping this is your rainbow.
 
I'm so sorry for your losses sweetie.

Try to hold tight and remember it's completely NORMAL for symptoms to come and go throughout your pregnancy.

I really hope this is your rainbow :hugs:
 
Thinking of you and sending good thoughts!

My symptoms are pretty much non existent when i wake up until about 6:00 pm each night and they sometimes come back with force but sometimes not at all, I read that your body can adjust to the different levels of hormones and can cause symptoms to fluctuate!

keep us posted
 
Have you had immune testing? Recurrent mc is quite often due to NKC's, undiagnosed clotting ie thrombophelia & Antiphospholipid Antibodies (and there's a plethora of other immune issues that are treatable). I have Thrombophelia & APS and kept mc'ing before 8 weeks until I was diagnosed. Some of those conditions also impede implantation (it took us 6 years and we were gearing up for the 7th IVF when I found out we were pregnant). I got pregnant naturally after my immune issues were diagnosed/treated and now I've nearly made it to 11 weeks. I hope you can figure out what's going on, I hope your baby is ok. MC is SO unfair!
 
I had really strong symptoms with DD from when I think I OV'd - then they disappeared a week later and I started bleeding. Was sure it was over, but she's now 10 months old and gorgeous! Every time they came back I breathed a sigh of relief and every time they disappeared I panicked (until 20 weeks) just didn't want to read and run as I found other people's experiences gave me some comfort. Good luck! Xxx
 
Thank you ladies.

I woke up this morning to some brown blood so it's not looking good.....I've got very mild cramping with it also......I do use progesterone pessaries at night so a small part of me is clinging to the hope that it's just cervix irritation.....I guess deep down I know though :(

I have my appointment on Tuesday and I will be mentioning the immune disorder testing.....I am also wondering what else I should be asking?

I was given 6 rounds of femara....4 of which have resulted in a pregnancy but never progressing beyond 6 weeks.

What is my next step? More fertility drugs? IVF?
 
Next step before you spend more $$ and have more losses is immune testing - a full work up. Do not pass go until you find out why your body is having troubles carrying. Check out the Dr Beers centre for reproductive immunology and read about what immune issues are and the testing for it before you go into your local appointment. My local fertility clinic specialists all shrugged off immune testing AND told me they already tested me for clotting issues and it came back negative. Had I listened to them I would have mc'd this (3rd) pregnancy by now!
 

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