ive been really poorly and have just gone on bp meds to lower that and my pulse as of yesterday, so, feeling a little better today i ventured downstairs to find devestation. i cleaned up the kitchen apart from the dishes. floor was awful! and took the washing out the machine that i put in there nearly a week ago!!!! ive had to wash it again as it stank! why OH couldnt have just taken it out for me i dont know! ghis idea of clean and tidy and mine are worlds apart. his being, well ive done the dishes. but the dishes will have had to have been sat there 3 days fgor him to bother with. dog hair is back all over the stairs again and throws on the sofa need washing again. i feel like as soon as i have the energry or am feelingw ell enough to do a big clean, 2 minutes later its back the way it was because OH dosnt help and keep it maintained. its like climbing a mountain all over again when you arent feeling good! sorry, needed to rant!! he is good in so many ways i mean he has really been looking after me, its just the house. im a bit OCD with keeping it clean and when i cant do it it eats away at me! i dont mind a bit of mess but cant stand it the way it is!