feel so left out

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - Second Trimester' started by passengerrach, Oct 8, 2008.

  1. passengerrach

    passengerrach mummy to kai

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    i feel so left out at work like no one can be bothered to be friends with me because im leaving we are a small company and a new girl just started (she worked there years ago as well) and two of my friends just completely lick her arse and they dont invite me out for lunch with them and stuff i think its because they think y should we bother being friends with her when we can be friends with her coz shes not leaving i feel really upset by it and just cant wait to leave now but theres still ages till i can leave sorry guys rant over i just sometimes feel now that u lot are the only people i can talk to that this will feel silly to everyone else. anyone else lost friends through being pregnant
     
  2. sophie c

    sophie c 2 gorgeous daughters <3

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    hey hun, i know i cant wait to leave either you get some wierd experiences in work i think, and at times i feel like i could just tell them to stick it up their bums!!!

    hope things get better for you

    xxxxxxxx
     
  3. Neecee

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    I'm kinda dealing with the same thing. We have a girl who's here to work for a year (as well as covering my maternity leave). She seems to be the new life and soul of the party and I'm finding that I'm getting left out of things a bit now. I've never been one for the drinking and clubbing scene, and I don't intend to do it now I'm pregnant, but I don't even get invited to things anymore. I'm not really that bothered about it though, as I like to keep my work life and my social life separate, but I do know how you feel hun.x.
     
  4. mrs shine

    mrs shine Well-Known Member

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    Aw that sucks, just cos your leaving doesn't mean they have any right to ignore you.
    You don't need to feel silly, i'd be just as upset if people I considered friends/colleagues began treating me like that.

    Keep coming on here and we'll all keep you company.
     
  5. passengerrach

    passengerrach mummy to kai

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    thanks everyone means a lot to know there is somewhere to come and talk and 2 know ur not the only one lol
     
  6. polo_princess

    polo_princess ♥ Brookes Mummy ♥

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    Thats really crappy and selfish of them!!

    Just bite your tongue and sit it out hun you wont have much longer to go, oh and did you see theres a poss local meet going on in the forum meets section if your interested!!
     
  7. passengerrach

    passengerrach mummy to kai

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    oo didnt see it i will have alook
     
  8. lauriech

    lauriech Well-Known Member

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    Oh babes I feel for you :hug: I don't get invited to things anymore. I was never a big fan of clubbing/drinking before being pregnant, however, it doesn't mean I won't go to other events!

    Just keep chatting to us on here and we'll keep you company! :friends:
     
  9. mummymadness

    mummymadness Mummy to 4

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    Rach hun ...
    Iam your friend :) :) :) :) . Stupid Girls hey ... Who needs them .
    I havent really lost friends been pregnant , But i have never really had allot of friends just a select few close ones .
    If you ever fancy a good old moan hun you got my number ,We can slag them all off behind there backs make u feel better :) . xxxx .
     
  10. WelshGirl

    WelshGirl Mummy at last!!

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    Same here hun.....although loads of people work in my building, it's a very male-dominated environment, and I'd say only 5% are women. The 4 girls that I work most closely with are always planning nights out, but I never get invited....

    I don 't think there is much you can do about it, I used to get really upset by it, but now I realise that if they are that petty....why do I want to bother with them?!?

    We're all here for you hun....I know it's not the same, but come & chat to us if you're feeling lonely

    xxx
     
  11. Frankie

    Frankie Well-Known Member

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    I know exactly how your feeling its happening to me

    My best friends didnt even bother texting to see if i had got home safe when normally they would
     
  12. helen1234

    helen1234 Well-Known Member

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    awww hun sorry you feel left out, i've ot good friends at work (apart from my boss) but they are all blokes apart from one new girl who just started and is very very quiet and the another lady who is alot older than me, it makes the day go longer when your not enjoying it.
    i can't wait till i leave either can't come quick enough
    xxx
     

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