Feel so stupid!

[abi17]

I never usually get upset if people go on holiday or anything but my mum, dad, bro and his fiancée have just left for two weeks in turkey. I'm 33 weeks pregnant and I can't stop crying. For the last few nights I have been having nightmares that my little girl will be born early or something bad will happen. I have had a rough few weeks, Been in and out of hospital and now i just Really frightened I'm a mess and I can't work out why? Is this just my hormones? My body seems to be preparing itself for labour and has been for the last few weeks. Also my fiancé is at work till so I'm all alone in a 5 bedroomed house feeling like this I'm never like this so this is why I feel like an idiot. I don't think I would be so bad if mum hadnt gone she's been my rock these past few weeks and now she's not here!
Abi x

 

[qwerry]

I didn't want to read and run
I've never felt like this nor have i had bad dreams but im not that far on in my pregnancy but maybe you can go to the doctors it's probably just hormones mixed with anxiety but it might be best going and having a talk with them to give you a piece of mind, im sorry your feeling like this and i hope it gets better soon, im sure your LO will stay in there til it's time (who wouldnt , all nice and warm in mummys tummy)
PM if you ever need to talk xx

 

[v2007]

2 weeks will fly by.



V xxx

 

[v2007]

Bad dreams towards the end of pregnancy are common, don't worry.

V xxx

 

[Ashleii15]

It's completely normal to feel that way! Yeahh, it is your hormones. I am 32+1 weeks pregnant, and I know if everyone got up and left on vaca when it was so close to my due date I'd probably flip ): Because really anything could happen..
And yeahh, if your mom has been like everything for you up until this point, you are going to miss her even more, and that's understandable. Just try to get your boyfriend to come over as much as possible and check up on you
He might be working, and busy.. blablabla, but I mean you have his LO He is sure to come see you, and talk to him about this and how it's making you feel.. It really help talking to someone
I hope everything gets better, if you ever need someone to talk to, just message me!

 

[Leopard]

My fiance will be going away for 6wks for work, 7wks before I'm due! I know I'll be a nervous wreck; i feel for you.

 

[abi17]

My fiancé is really supportive it's just not the same. Mums been though it she knows how to calm me down when I'm being stupid or worrying to much! I know nothing prob wil happen but at the same time it could. I usually don't bother with anyone going away or being at work but cz I'm in the house on my own and mum n dad have gone for 2 weeks and my fiancé is working 55 hour weeks atm. I just feel really lonely. It sucks.
I want to he happy and enjoy these last few weeks but I'm so uncomfortable she keeps headbutting me in my ribs (extended breech position). Think I just need to have a good moan and a good cry.
Thanks for all your lovely messages, Im happy to hear it's just my hormones as I feel so miserable it's good to know it will get better, can't stay this miserable forever.
Abi x
Leopard I'm sorry to hear he's going so close to ur due date. I'm hear if you want too talk. There's only a week in between us happy 32 weeks.

 

[KateyCakes]

My mum went away when I was in hospital with serious health problems and 35 weeks pregnant. I hate it. OH visited me as much as he could but I was scared and as much as he tried to comfort me + tell me I'd be okay, he'd never given birth before
That 2 weeks went quite fast as I tried to keep myself busy.
Hugs hun. Hope you're okay

 

[abi17]

Thanks kateycakes, I'm glad u understand how it feels. OHs try to be supportive but like u said they've never been through labour so they don't completely understand. I only got out of hospital Monday so I think that's why I'm finding it so hard as well. Stupid hormones lol I hope your better now and all your health concerns have resolved. Cadence is beautiful! X

 

[KateyCakes]

Thank you hun If you don't mind me asking, what were you in hospital for?
I'm getting better thank you babe. Just thankful I have my little munchkin here with me after it all!

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

Bad and/or vivid dreams are extremely common in pregnancy, particularly towards the end. Try and keep yourself busy, sorting things out for LO, cleaning, watching films, get out and see friends if you can! The time'll fly by and it'll stop you worrying so much!

 

[abi17]

I took your advice and went out or lunch withmy best friend he rang me up realised I was feeling down and took me out it was nice to get my feelings out n have someone to talk too.
Kateycakes- I have a condition called benign intractanial hypotenstion I was originally in for that and when I got sent for an MRI they found two partial blood clots in my brain so my treatment was altered to sort that out. Was a worrying time but glad to be out of immediate danger now x

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

I'm on clexane injections daily. I have to inject myself in the thigh it hurts I'm stable and really hated being in hospital. they checked them on another MRI ad they was decreasing in size and my blood was thinner when I had my blood tests done. I have to have regular blood tests and I have been given a BP machine to check. Also I have to go to the midwives every 2 days to have her monitored and I'm having a c section, got to stop the clexane injections 48 hours before to make sure there out of my system so I don't bleed heavily. I find out in two weeks my c section date but I presume it will be at 37 weeks that's what they were discussing when I was in. When did you get admitted? Did u have a c section I take it? I'm alot better I didn't even realise it was a blood clot I thought it was my normal headaches, the shock was worse than anything tbh as I was at risks of a stroke. What treatment did you have? X

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

Yer Il need them for two months afterward but a lower preventative course and then I will have to have them for any future pregnancies as well. I think that's the reason why I have too stop my injections before my c section as they only last in the system for 24 hours so I won't need to be put too sleep. Its something I really don't want and with my benign intractanial hypotension I have to havectegular lumberpunctures so before they give me an epidural they will reduce my liquid too 15. It's dangerous but I have to have the liquid drained otherwise the pressure is too much in my brain. I have them at 8.30pm every night as that's when the first one was given too me. The clexane I'm on doesn't affect the baby at all it doesn't go to the placenta so there's no risk too her. I made my consultant check before I took them and got discharged I have all the medical papers with the risks on as well. Im confident in the care I'm receiving as my neurologist Is fantastic and I Have seen him for 5 years now so I trust him to keep me and bump safe. When will u find out the results you will have to let me no how you get on? X

 

[KateyCakes]

Yer Il need them for two months afterward but a lower preventative course and then I will have to have them for any future pregnancies as well. I think that's the reason why I have too stop my injections before my c section as they only last in the system for 24 hours so I won't need to be put too sleep. Its something I really don't want and with my benign intractanial hypotension I have to havectegular lumberpunctures so before they give me an epidural they will reduce my liquid too 15. It's dangerous but I have to have the liquid drained otherwise the pressure is too much in my brain. I have them at 8.30pm every night as that's when the first one was given too me. The clexane I'm on doesn't affect the baby at all it doesn't go to the placenta so there's no risk too her. I made my consultant check before I took them and got discharged I have all the medical papers with the risks on as well. Im confident in the care I'm receiving as my neurologist Is fantastic and I Have seen him for 5 years now so I trust him to keep me and bump safe. When will u find out the results you will have to let me no how you get on? X

You know, I look at what you write + I could write it myself You're situation is just like mine! Do you have facebook?

 

[abi17]

Yer I do it's Abigail wain, iv just added Natalie so if you look on her Facebook you will see a message from me. Iv just seen u live in Stoke, I'm from Lichfield once my baby is here we should meet up it would be great to talk to someone in the same situation. I don't mention my health to many of my friends they don't really understand so I don't are the point, my family are great but it would be nice to have someone to talk too who's a similar age as uv been through the same worries as me. Did you have to wear those stupid socks when you was in hospital? I'm meant too still wear them but my consultant said as long as I keep mobile I don't have too so I force myself to go walking lol x

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

Exactly, my mum told all my family and my OH told all of his I was a bit like it's my body but oh well what's done is done.
Seriously!! Il cry there awful. And my toes pole through the hole in the bottom because I move so much lol x