Hey ladies, not sure where I belong on these boards... My situation seems easy enough, but I fall between TTC and LTTTC. It hasn't been long- yet, anyways. But I know it will be. See, DH had a vasectomy 12 years ago after his youngest was born and loooong before I came in to the picture. After carefully weighing the pros and cons, and after a lot of convincing on his part that he'd father and love any baby I have regardless of biological ties, we've decided donors would be the best way. But money is tight for that. I should also mention we're into an alternate lifestyle and invite others over for occasional fun as well... But I am surprised at how many men would give to a sperm bank and yet wouldn't even think about giving directly to the couple in need. And so I keep hoping on that teeny tiny chance that one little soldier survived and we can have our bundle without having to try so darn hard... It happens, but rarely... and DH had even semi convinced me that this month might be the month, but alas a today. So I'm just feeling down is all.